Weekend's Ebbs and flow.
13:44 January 14, 2022
Friday
Hello! good afternoon beautiful readers and writers at read.cash
Today I have just studied for 3 hours and 20 minutes till now and I am going through a bit of laziness I mean I need a little more energy to continue further with my studies but, before that, I thought of writing something here and then I will do my studies for sure.
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And this blog will be about relationships, especially romantic relationship.A few things which in my opinion prevails in a romantic relationship are as:
You can be yourself: If you are in a romantic relationship and you can be yourself in terms of opinions, thoughts, plans, organizing things, etc. and you don't feel like being manipulated by others and you also ensure the same to them.
Protecting each other: With this, I want to confer that it not only means protecting them physically but also mentally and you two are motivating each other to be a better version of themselves and help them in this aspect and you both grow together.
Completing each other: It normally refers to the fact that if you are weak in one thing and your partner has a good catch in that thing then you both can complete each other by making them learn and getting a learning environment and it is like an opportunity coming from within.
Forgiving and moving on with arguments: In all relationships there are definitely fights and arguments and we get hurt sometimes and also we hurt our partner a few times and normally its all good because the truth is we only get hurt by the one who we love and who we care and this hurt arises not intentionally but conventionally. The best thing about this is you both forgive each other and do not hold a grudge about it and move on from arguments and love more.
You come first for them: It normally means not only our success, result, and achievements bring us happiness but when we see our partners excelling and doing so great we get so happy and present for them always to celebrate the moments.
Celebrating each other's differences: It basically indicates the difference of ethnicity, religion, background but in a broader sense, it can be about anything the contrasting opinions and plans and working on them together and even celebrating these differences because it again creates a sense of learning environment which brings best out in both of you.
Having a sense of what the other is thinking: This is so beautiful, in every romantic relationship both parties know each other's feelings without them conveying it and we show some gesture to make them feel comfortable and this finally sets the environment for conversation.
Understanding: with passing time as you both grow time in your relationship you both get to learn and understand each other so well and enjoy them so deeply.
Feeling of knowing each other for long: The basic truth is normally we both have never been known to each other except in some situations where love prevails from childhood, though we have known each other for not so long we feel like we are knowing each other for a really long time.
Unreplacebale: If you both have a strong romantic connection with each other then you both will develop a feeling that they are an irreplaceable part of our life.
Always there for one other: No matter how much you are in any excited state are or how low you are going through in your life they will be with you supporting and holding you like the spine and it feels so beautiful to know that actually there is someone for you out there who never stops believing in you.
Supporting each other's in their goal: If you both love and care for each other then you will definitely love to support them to pursue their goals and they will be encouraged at the next level with this.
The tough conversation: It is quite related to argument type but a little different basically in this we sometimes go through the conversation with respect to future and with respect to person's choice and telling them actually that they are doing this wrong or they should not do this it seems a tough conversation but actually it helps in a long run and it creates a way too stronger bond for future.
Providing space: It is so much important in every relationship, and we must know that we need to give space and alone time for our partners themselves so that they do not feel like being suffocated with you and ends up fighting with you later on.
Never feeling silenced: I am referring to the fact of sharing even the negative emotions of yours to your partner openly so that they feel connected with you and help you and standstill with you. Do not try to hold feelings and emotions for too long especially if it is discomforting you because it can create tensions and you will end up being so short-tempered and creating conflicts in your beautiful relationship.
Enjoying each other's quirk: We enjoy each other's quirk and cheer it all through for example when my girlfriend tells me how she runs very fast just to dodge the security at the gate of the apartment just to avoid the cumbersome formality and I laugh with her and tells her that's why I was wondering why you have got strong legs.
You know they are not perfect: Everyone has flaws in them and no one is perfect and the moment we start thinking we are perfect that means we stopped learning and attained an ego state of dangerous level and the thing is when our partner accepts us with all our flaws then the love grows so exponentially.
With this I am ending my blog and thank you for reading it through.
One complements the other, mutual help, understanding and respect above all. Happy day to you