Some inner thoughts.

January 29, 2022
Saturday's vibes and mankind's wisdom.

Hello, everyone!

Today, I feel like talking about some lessons which not only I am writing just after hearing or reading from people, books but also experienced quite a considerable amount.

We as human beings go through many stages infant, young kids, adolescents, youths, grown-up, and finally retired wisdomful person enough to pass it on to the next generation. Some people go through early maturity, but still, sometimes get deviated from their paths believing everything to be too roses and lavenders. Some learn the life lessons a little after but there's no right time to learn anything, anything with which you go through teaches you and prepares you for further challenges and rewards.

I as a young human prepared to dive deep into the ocean with all the optimism and ready to accept and pass optimistic thoughts and as well absorbing the pessimism. I just try not to hurt others in my way deep down into the ocean but it's a little different thing we cannot control all the scenarios ourselves, there's always a choice, and with choices comes the circumstances. It can be positive, negative, and neutral as well. Getting yourself happy with the positive outcomes and the negative outcomes is to remind you that you needed a lesson to learn and its' right in front of you do not deviate yourself from avoiding the negative outcomes. And the neutral outcomes make you think about what you could have done more to convert the scenarios into a more positive outlook.

You cannot make everyone happy and if you are doing that then better get yourself together because if you are making all the other out there happy then you are just getting yourself entitled to do something from which it becomes difficult to return back. Learn to love yourselves first, grow yourself first, love your family and friends first and make them safe. At the same time ensure you it is your duty not to be harmful to others.

Adolescents get through their first crush and just let it pass and some are also courageous to get up and talks with them to find out and explore more others get into someone later and excited to explore the world through them but maybe they were not really the right person, you keep on interacting with your opposite sex at times and the life keeps moving on. So all those people out there who gets hurt because of their too much expectations from their opposites remember it's just a phase if you get heartbroken but it will pass on and there's always someone more beautiful for you you just have to be open to the world. And also I would not motivate you or discourage you for not having expectations because its our human tendency or maybe not but what i believe is that if you work for something or someone you have certain expectations out of it or them of course because you have worked for it and you expect the outcome. But the most beautiful thing to do is decide what you want, work for it wait for it and grab it if you finally get it but do not keep the outcomes always in your mind.

There's two beautiful thought which always is there in my beautiful brain.

"Expect least to get the most"

"It's not the result which gets you more happy and excited, its always the journey which makes you smile"

Some incidents happen in our life which makes us sad and we at times may get broken but it does not mean the world is going to stop for you or your life has ended just take a little time keep yourself a little time, if you want go out with friends, indulge yourself in something other which makes you little engaged and when you have a little enough time get ready to conquer the world again with different perspectives, and with a jovial and cheerful attitude.

I would like to share one more thing that when we have less opposite sex interaction and at later we start interacting with opposites for the first time we get very excited and we start getting so expressive to them and we start thinking about beautiful things about both but it only happens because you never had interacted with your opposites before and that opposite may have lot many people in their life and normally what we do is to keep on sharing our love and care for them but actually there's no effect of these on them because they are not deprived of opposite emotions or love or care from others for them. It's better to make yourself stable and try to interact with every other people with an open mindset without wasting all your love, emotions, and care on every other people you meet out there. You finally will strike a meeting with someone who actually is meant for you.

At last, I only want to say that Keep smiling and be healthy. A healthy person is the only one who is having a good physical state, good mental state, and good social state. Ask yourself are you healthy?

The things which I mentioned above may not be understood by all but there are life moments when you will experience all these, and you will learn it all by yourself.

Spread love and be loved.)

Thank you all for reading.

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