Why do marriages breakup .
Leighann Blackwood.
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Hello guys,
I woke up this morning to the noise of my neighbor things being thrown out by police, I took one look at her and my contenance changed about married couples.
it happened that during the last week of November 2021,we moved into a new apartment in a new area let's say another community entirely, just two week of being at our new place , we heard a sound from my neighbor apartment , the woman was screaming that the husband has killed her, we tried as much as possible to settle their dispute to no avail.
Not up to three days later the man took the son to his family people and left the wife with the house which we got to know that ,their house rent expired , so he left her with the daughter and moved his things out of the house .
A marriage of 7year with two kids just ended just like that, with no really big deal happening, when I asked the wife this morning about what really happened, she just said he got tired of the marriage and started violence with her.
My perspective on thus is when two people want to get married there should be enough courtship before venturing into marriage to avoid breakup.
SOME CAUSES OF BREAKUP IN MARRIAGE
1. lack of effective communication : when there isn't means of communicating between the pairs.
2. UNDERSTANDING: Two people who come together without really understanding themselves,surly the marriage will not work out.
3.TOLERANCE: YOU are not able to tolerate one another in a relationship , it won't work out.
4. FORGOING EGO: we know that men especially have this pride in them that they can't seem to let go of, but once in a while we need to let go of such pride in certain things
As a man and a woman in relationships, let's tend to advise each other as mates as you would to either your sister or brother, try to settle things in one accord.
when there I dispute , find way to settle amicably,thing of the future you can create with that person, think of things you will make out to be in future.
Let's be guided by love in all things we do . Let love lead. Revisit what brought you together .
Thanks for reading .
most common reasons people give for their divorce are lack of commitment, too much arguing, infidelity, marrying too young, unrealistic expectations, lack of equality in the relationship, lack of preparation for marriage, and abuse. Though there are still more reasons