Ideal age gap for silbings

It's so funny when you think you can handle all that comes with pregnancy until you actually experience it yourself, before I got married I do see alot of pregnant women change and their attitude also changes, one time I saw a woman shouting at the husband, and I was like what ? Why?.
Then I got married and got pregnant too, then I recollect to that day I saw that woman venting out on her husband, and I was like so it's like this?.
Personally the ideal age gap for silbings should be 3years for in-between the first and second child, as a mother even medically your are supposed to wait 18months before trying for a new baby. But I advise mother's to wait for 3years, so as to understand your first child well and to also know things about him or her so that when the second comes he or she won't feel like he is been paid less attention, you know children can be so intelligence.
My son was 3years old when I had my daughter,who is presently 8months old now, he asks lots of questions about his sister like when is her birthday? Why did I give birth to her? . You see I try all my best to give him a good answer. Yes we interact. Even when I was indisposed I send him on little errands around the house. But if you don't give that space you will be taking care of a baby with another baby still on ground, you get?

Truly being a mother isn't a joke ,I see lots of people spacing their children,yea cause of comfort and what will be convenient for them.
But all still falls in the joy you get at the end of the day when you look at their faces and thinks she came from me, he came from me 😁😁.
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