All Marriages Will Have Their Unique Issues But Preparation Makes The Difference

A man will only focus on the outside than the inside only when he's not truly inside in the first place.

We get bored of people and a particular way of life and that's why feelings and emotions are always misleading cause a time will come when they will become totally useless.

God is the only one who keeps marriages and when he's not involved stuffs like this is what you'll see.

The grass is not always greener on the other side but you won't know until you reach the other side.

The role of the woman in a marriage should not be forgotten as well as things will start falling apart the moment she let's her guard down.

She has to be at it 100%

Hmm...

I believe a man that's truly ready for marriage should have dumped everything called outside world to focus on building a good life with his family. He wouldn't have a reason to look outside even for once...

But men marry for different reasons of which some are so just quite insane. Why will a man marry primarily because he wants a woman that will be satisfying him sexually without having to do it secretly? Or primarily because he wants to have children? Or other shallow-minded inclined reasons.

Preparing for marriage for both men and women demands more than those babyish thoughts/reasons. Readiness should cut across spirituality, mentality, commitment and responsibility.

There is always a sign. It just don't happen like that. If the man history is taken. It will be discovered.

All marriages will have their unique issues but preparation makes the difference

It's not that those men that are not looking outside are having 100% smooth marriage but they are just committed and determined. Their heart is locked up; they are ready even for the worst, so a worse situation can't make them think the otherwise

You ll know when a man or someone in your life or in each other's life doesn't put you first. Attending to other matters that come late. Not giving attention toward the most important needs of one's life/need and still attending to others.

E.g, sometimes back a man needs to pay his son's school fee. But instead use the money for his younger brother's wedding (buying one big cow). The brother; same father but different mother ooo. He failed to pay his son school fees. And the mother was one that struggled to pay. After many years, the whole thing burst.

That's why she should wait and for him to complete his house in the village and postgraduate. For how many years? No specific number of years?

I am sure the wife will turn to season film in his husband house.

People are achieving great things in their marriage with all sources. So something ephemeral shouldn't stop them. The house can collapse, Asuu might be on strike and couple with covid-19 pandemic.

A sensible man to lead a home is required... The sad truth is that the children are on their own and they are fully responsible for the choices they make.

We can only pray for them at this stage which is a crucial stage, any mistake will have a lasting effect.

The older child can be the model for the other ones and help guide provided he/she has made good decisions already.

There are pple from broken homes who still did good things with their life, though it's hard but it's also possible.

Do something good with your life today.

Thanks for reading.