Judge me if I am not

Pampering yourself sometimes is necessary. It gives you motivation and energy to continue life with positivity.

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Today is a girl's day out. We don't have work because today is a special non-working holiday. So, we decided to go to a salon together with my co-worker/friend, Mae. I already mentioned her here on my previous story entitled " one more". Actually it's been a while that we plan of having our hair fix. It's been month I guess. But, we can't get it done because we don't have salary yet.

We plan of having colors and her hair also need rebond. Mine I guess is just hair cut and some colors to make me look younger. Actually, I don't have any plan of doing so because it's not within the priority list. I am very much contented of my looks because it's already good to me, not until the head in the office told me I need to fix my hair cause I look like an old woman.

Ouch! It hurts but I believe truth hurts.

So, for the cuts not to bleed, I accept her critique open mindedly. I ask her what to do or needed to be done and she said to cut it short and put some color. Okay, noted. I did not put the suggestion away and calculate my budget if it would be possible to insert fixing of hair. Luckily, It's possible. We were able to get the schedule available for us today, our girls day out, because it's holiday. I did not hesitate to say yes even though I don't have my salary yet because my colleague Ma'am Mae offered to lend me the amount for her to have someone to be with. I accepted the offer and promise to pay her tomorrow whenever I get my salary.

I planned of not waking up early because I wanted to get advantage of the holiday but then my body clock betrayed me. I wake up 5:40 in the morning due to the red light that is reflecting on the window. I was panicking and check what it is and I saw the bloody sky.

The sky is reminding me that it wasn't not just my world which is bloody but the BCH world as well. It's very beautiful though and I stayed there few minutes before deciding to get inside. By the way my boarding house as I have mentioned in my previous story that it is located near the shore. Maybe a 15 to 20 steps from the door you'll reach the shore. And it's one of the reason why I choose to stay in this boarding house.

To continue, I never able to go back to sleep and just stay awake. Getting ready for the salon plan at 9 o'clock. And arrived there at 10:40 a.m. It needs 30-40 minutes ride to reach my destination, that is why. Plus, I need to wait for a cab.

When we meet in our meeting place, we've canvas few salon before deciding where to go. We need to do that for us to have affordable prize and have the cheapest. After going in to three salon we finally decided.

We took photo before having our hair done. Bye-bye long black hair. I will surely missed you. No worries, you will forever in my heart. Lol!

My hair will be cut into short and have some treatment and color for only 350 pesos. Oh diba?? 😁😅 It's the most affordable salon and prize having the three services. And I like the beautician because she is very friendly. She cut my hair first and then put the treatment. It's my first time having the treatment or hair cellophane in other term. I feel cold from my scalp and a tolerable pain as well. After few hours my hair is washed and then blown dry. I get another wash because I told ate that my scalp is still itchy. After washing she continue blowing it dry. After blowing she put the color, washed it again. Blown again and then tream it. And viola!

That's how my hair look like now. Here's my hair before.

I think there's no much changes. The color didn't penetrate will because it's not very light. Though I actually choose it not to be. That's how the beautician suggest too. There's no much difference for me it's just shorter, not black and brush well. 😅😁

But if I will let you judge me, how was my hair? Does it suit my face or not? Is it nice or not? I would love to hear some words from you. It would be much appreciated. Just drop it in the comment box below. 👇

To pamper yourself sometimes is good and necessary for you to have energy and motivation to continue fighting the battle of life. It's not bad to pamper yourself especially to things that would lead you to positive out look. If it's not included in the priority list because of more important things just like mine. I guess, we could save small amount for it to happen. It's for yourself and it's not everyday. It's fine to pamper yourself of things you love and like to have. It's not just about having your hair done. Anything at all.

It's okay as well to accept critique to other people. Be open minded. It's important to hear the words of others because sometimes they tell us things we are not aware of. Again, this is not just about hair but in general. Do not think all things coming from other people that hurt you is negative, it may be necessary for you to learn, and grow. Therefore be open and willing to accept things.

That would be all for today friends. Thank you for reading. Keep safe. God bless.