Body Shaming

Body Shaming is a habit of some people they call others by unwanted names and mock other's body. By calling them "fat, humpty dumpy" etc.

Body Shaming gets an unbearable feelings when it is committed by your life partner like husband, wife, gf or bf or even friends.

Just imagine, how it will feel. When a husband calls his wife with the words like "You are fat, your body is getting lumpy, you have stretch marks on your body and he utters other words similar to this."

And he suggests you different steps to take like "do exercises, deficit or burn your calories by working or doing exercises. I will not bring you the clothes of well reputed designers. Your body hair annoys me, etc, eyc."

All this doesn't happens in the early stage of relationship or marriage, but when the relationship gets older, body Shaming phrases comes out from the mouth of your partner. Not all but mostly the people start getting bored from their partner, some of them get to dislike the other one. The first two to three years prove like love for each other, lpve beyond everything. But as time goes on, everything start getting fade.

Husbands wants from their wives to look like a barbie doll and wives want a husband masculine like a hero of some movie. Actually thet both want a perfect figure, but don't make it start from their self.

As a result they start loosing interest in each other. Especially the husbands behave like, and do body Shaming of their wives. He needs a chammak challo type girls but in reality he is having a grown woman.

The wife do the household chores for the whole day and when her husband get backs to home she is unable to get love from her husband because he lost interest.

The question is, does every marriage face this situation, do every husband does this with his wife? Why he loses interest in jis wife? What could be the solution for this situation?

If your husband is such kind pf person as explained above, and always do body Shaming, he is for sure not a good person.

I have some important tips to handle this type of problem. All the tips are explained as under. Follow them step by step.

Tip #1: Tit for Tat

Whenever your husband behaves like this and do body Shaming, he needs software updates. Ask him few things.

"Hey, buddy, please develop six packs, i can't see your triceps, make triceps. Your tummy is getting more and more every upcoming day, don't burp, sometimes you should give your attention to me, you don't have any care for me".

And focus on yourself, maintain your physique and mind if possible. He don't do love you at night? Is it right na? Ok, no problem, don't worry, you better play games, listen to your favorite music, play some interesting games on your cellphone, make him feel like you don't care if he has no care of you. Give time to yourself, he will realize the change in you and ge will get better.

Tip #2: Ask him to hire maids

Ask you husband to hire maids and nanny, and they will do housing chores and will cook, if not ask your husband to do that works which you were doing.

And also take his atm card and pamper yourself, spend his money in caring for you. Moreover you should join a gym center and ask your husband to pay for it.

Just in one day, his mind will find a right direction to go, and he will forget body Shaming on you. And he will find you as a queen then.

Tip #3: Make him familiar with the ugliness of words.

Words sometime can have more hurting than the sword, words can really hurt a person before you more than your expectations. Just like their positivity, words also can be negative and work as a substitute to poison to hurt someone.

All you need to do is make your husband familiar with the power of good and bad words he utters. And this could be done by calling him the same as he do to you.

Say him you are getting fat, your tummy is increasing gradually, you look ugly with fat and increased tummy. And when he will get angry on your words for him, ask him politely that his words also has same effects on you when he calls you fat, chubby, or humpty etc.

Closing thoughts

Honestly writing, obesity and fatness is harmful for your own body, try to make your body healthy but comfortable for you. Do exercises maintain diet and do whatever you could to make your physique good. Groom yourself, is it good to look old woman or is it better to look like a hot teenager.? Which one is better? To look fat or to look sexy and hot. Decide and work on it. Increase your sleep hours to look fresh every time. Be always beautiful with makeup in your own house.

Don't you love your partner? Off course you do, then try to look beautiful in his and in your own eyes to. Makeup your body and face to look beautiful to your husband or partner. And if your husband can afford, hire a maid for house hold work.

And it is also true that people find taste in Haraam things and feels tasteless the Halal one. That's the reason the first degrade their partner, put him/her in complex then move forward in finding other.

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