Why remain in that relationship.

December, 16th 2021

If you choose to remain in a wrong relationship just to prove a point, I hope the point will not end up proving you. This is a big hope I have for you, that you will not end up with "had I known"

Even our Lord Jesus could have proven to be God by turning the stone to bread when the devil tempted Him. But He fled that appearance of evil. He addressed the situation appropriately.

If that relationship is one which you ought to run away from, but you choose to remain in it because you think things can get better after more than a year or two years of abusive courtship, or dealing with insecurities and the likes, then I hope that the point will not end up mocking you out of the relationship.

In every relationship you go into, there are ways to detect red flags even from the beginning. There are differences between reconcilable, adjustable difference and incompatibility, endurance, irreconcilable differences and the likes. If after discovering that the person you chose to go into relationship with is not compatible in several ways with you, and you two have numerous irreconcilable differences, but you're trying to see if things can work, then you're on a long thing.

Please, flee every appearance of red flags. Avoid choosing to patch up, manage, and endure in your relationship. The implication is that you won't grow well spiritually, emotionally, physically and your lovelife will get dimmer.

Don't go into any relationship because you pity someone. Don't go into a relationship because you want to impress some set of people.

See, if you unwillingly study a course just because your parents choose to see you there, good luck to you. You still have a way to convert to become whom you really want to be after presenting them your certificate. But if you go into a relationship or you marry someone just because they say you both fit each other or you want to make some persons happy, well, it is well with you.

Listen, those who chose for you won't stay in your matrimonial home with you. They will have no say after you're married. It will be you and your spouse. Let that STICK!

Thanks friends 

You know what is best for you, then go for it. Again, if you're still in an abusive or wrong relationship because you feel you've spent years in courtship with that person and you are scared of what people will say — perhaps some people will call you unserious or indecisive — I hope you know you're on your own. Whether you get it wrong or right, people will open their mouth and talk. You can't overrule that. So you better wake up and do the RIGHT thing RIGHT. If you finally end up in such marriage, I hope you won't bleed out of it.

You have the power to choose right, don't deny yourself while the sun is still up.

"The truth will always remain bitter, but it's the best sweetest thing you can ever embrace."

I rise!