The month of December is about giving. It is about sharing some of the blessings you receive from God for the whole year. And it is not bad, yet is the better way we can do for our loved ones. In my part, if I really have a lot of money, I will not hesitate to share everything I want. I will not doubt to lend a hand especially this Christmas. To be honest, it is one of my greatest desire to share some stuff, especially with my family. But sad to say, I can't at this time because I am still unemployed. No bonus receives. Lol😁 I will try my best next year in God's willing. We don't know what if I will be hired soon.😊 I am still praying for that. 🙏
Thank you as always my blessings for always supporting me especially to @Mazekin for renewing. God bless you all more and more. 😇
Treat or Save?
I will state first the reason for the word Treat.
Since it's Christmas time, I have this desire to treat myself for I overcome the stress I encountered many times in my life this year most especially when I just gave birth this year in January. I wanted to buy the things I wanted to have such as trendy dresses for me to wear this coming Christmas Eve, doll shoes as a partner to the dress, and T-shirts for everyday use. Ukay2x is enough for me.😁 I also wanted to go to the salon and make myself prettiest. Hahaha😂 I think I deserve it after all the hard works I made. I think I am not that "feeling rich" because I just wanted to pamper myself. And it's not bad at all. Right? But sad to say my money is not enough. Well, to be honest, I have money. I earn it from this community. I work hard for this but I have this doubts to spent it because this money has another purpose to spend it. I save it for a reason.
The second word is Save.
Well, this money I have right now is intended for the upcoming first birthday of my little one next year, January 5 to be exact. I save it since the day I started on this platform. I have a lot of plans to be done for my baby's birthday celebration. I have a lot of things to buy first like the decorations such as balloons, loot bags (but I can make it through DIY), and souvenirs. Moreover, for the foods, we need to prepare because we are expecting both families to come and celebrate with us. So, that is why we need to have enough finances for her birthday.
Actually, I am not aiming for an expensive birthday party because in the first place I can't afford it now for the reason that my husband had just stopped working from his recent job due to insufficient funds to continue. (I already shared the story behind it entitled "A New Door Has Open for my Husband". Feel free to read it. )😊
Also, as his wife, partner, and mother, I don't have any work. I can't sustain to the extent of what we wanted for the birthday celebration. Even if we want to, but our wallet just says it already that we can't. That's why I don't push myself to have a costly party. I just want a simple and memorable one. In addition, we are still amid crisis, so, we still have the excuse to say. Lol. 😅
Therefore, for now, we just wanted to have a simple celebration. Most importantly our both families will be satisfied and happy. 🙂
At this moment, I am still in turmoil about whether I will treat myself or just save it for my baby. Maybe I will choose for my daughter's happiness rather than mine. Even if I want to. 😩 This is called a mother's love. 💓
That would be all for today. Thank you for reading and dropping by. God bless us all. Shalom. !
To my upvoters and commenters, a huge thank you to all of you. You made me this far.😊
Date Published: 12 - 10 - 2021
Blessed Author: @Thania05 📝
BCH DREAMER 🤑
On my part i choose my baby, actually i wanted to buy new phone for myself but i still choose to save my money for my son's birthday, and that was last November. Anyway you can still decide whatever you want sis, you also deserve some treat for your self.