Every Guardian Wants to make their children attentive and wants to see a successful man. But most of the students are in attentive about their students. As a teacher i think there are so many reasons to be inattentive in their studies.
Comparison
The worst thing in our country is comparing with others children. I believe in different personality. Every students has an own and unique personality. By comparing with other we are just killing our children’s own abilities. As a result, a child started to believe that he is not capable to do it. This humiliating hampers to grow his own creativity.
Extra Guideline
When i was student, then i just went to school regularly. I had one tuition after the school and i played at afternoon. But i see my students, "From morning to evening they have no nano seconds to take rest. They are just running behind teachers and CGPA." This shouldn’t be done. They are not machine. When i was student then a day was by 24 hours as same as now. But the pressure isn’t same like ours. This is the main reason to be an inattentive student.
Too ambitious
When a child become a good student then our parents start to think big about the child. They want to see their child as a doctor or an engineer. This high expectations create a pressure to a child. Sometimes this pressure turns into depression.
Unwarranted disappointment
When a student don't cut a good figure in the exam, then the parents become so disappointed. They behaves like their children have done a crime and start to torture on them. That happened with me every time when i didn’t cut good result in any subject. This makes children panic and they give up. But most of the time student can do good in the next exam because of a little support.
Not telling about wins and losses
Where is win, there is loss. It's the common rule of human life. But most of the time we don't tell the story of losses. We just tell them about the success. Every children should be learnt to not give up after failure. But we don't do it. After running behind the success they lost their attentiveness.
Not Rewarding at success
The child should be rewarded for every success, no matter how small. It could be meeting a daily reading target or doing a good job. If there is a reward in the work, it does not seem difficult. As a result, children can complete the task stress-free and with interest. But how many parents do this?
An imbalanced Routine
A man can be perfect by following a routine. But most of the parents are mope about their children routine. They fulfill the routine by study. But this shouldn’t be done. Monotonic routine can make them tired and this tiredness can effect on their brain. Thus a children can be inattentive in thier studies.
Conclusion:
A child's future success depends on the family's planned support and guidance. Also a balanced routine can take him to the peak of success. Otherwise, you are just destroying career of your children.
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