How can we make our relationship healthy
Understanding is the main thing of a relation. A good relation builds up by good understanding. Your thoughts express you. So when the understanding of both will be good then the relation will be heavy.Fighting is the common thing of a relation. There are so many causes to deterioration of a relation. But most of the time some small things make a crack into the relation. If we can handle this small things then the relation will be good and smooth.
Let's talk about "How to make a relationship healthy".
Be clean and apprise your requirement:
Misunderstanding is the main cause of breaking a relationship most of the time. In every relationship stands on emotion and mental supports. If these two things are absent in a relation then the relation won't be last long. If requirement turns into nonattainment then the distance starts to increase. So just learn about your partner's expectations and be conscious about your relationship. Thus we can get rid of so many problems.
Can't read your mind:
Sometimes our anger, unhappiness and happiness express by our expression. If you think that you just express your reaction just talk or expression then it's wrong. Your partner don't know magic that he can find you problem by just expression. Just express your feelings directly and be open forward. Where do you made mistake,if you find out then the relation will be happier. But sometimes we expect more than our thoughts from our partner. Which is the another cause of breaking up. So don't expect too much.
Listen and Discuss:
At first i told that building a good relation you must to be a good listener. Most of the time we don't want to listen our partners. We burke their stories. But in every relation both of them have 50-50 rights to discuss. Even if you can't express your comment then say it openly too. A good relation makes by a good communication and by a good understanding.
Resolve the conflict:
When you started to live under one roof then you must have a habit of rebate. Logic, disagreements and fighting is the regular things of a relation. The important thing is how you are reacting and how are you solving your problems. Every single mistakes take a relation at the deterioration. So before the dame you need to solve it first. So recover your problem before going to sleep. Thus your morning will be more beautiful than the previous day.
Keep time for each other:
Life is so busy. Maintaining family,office and relatives we go far away from our partners. Spending time with each other decreases day by day. If you are that person then change your habit so fast. Love is a property of investment. How much you invest you will get more than your investment. Make a time to send him/her a short message, drink tea, go to a date which will make relation beautiful. So keep time for your partners.
Celebrate your beautiful moments:
Life is not a bed of roses. Hard time comes everyone's life. So when you are happy then enjoy that time. Celebrate little things of the time. You will see this little moments will help you for the hard times. This little celebration will bring her more closer than before.
There is no specific rules to make your partner happy. But these are the common rules to make a relation happy. We everyone know about it. But just don't obey because of our human nature. But one thing is in life just you need mental happiness. If you are not happy with your life partner then the whole world seems messy infront of you. So do what ever you want and make sure that you are mentally happy.
Communication makes the relationship stronger. You both should be able to communicate about how you feel, share ideas with each other too.