A Real Story of an Ordinary Boy becoming an "Unsocial Boy" Racing for his father's dream!

29 39
Avatar for T.khan
Written by
4 years ago
In communities: We are Bangladeshi(1bc0) , Matters of The Heart MTH(4ac8) , Life Story(63dd) , Share some thoughts (SST)(89db) , Writing(b7c7)

This is a story about a boy in.An Ordinary boy!....oh,One minute!!..He was not so ordinary though!Because his thinking was so different then others of his age then.Thats also a reason of not having so many friends!!!

He grew up in a family where his childhood was not different than others of his age then!..Oh no,I have to say here also that his childhood was not so "Ideal" than others!

Let me tell you the whole story now!

He was in Class 3 or 4 back then.He loved to draw picture.Oneday he saw his friends was drawing beautiful pictures.He asked how they drew pictures that looked so real!They said " Due to Water clour".He went to home & requested his father to buy him one.But then the reply he got that broke his heart! He not only refused but also said, " Dont waste ur time on that disgusting drawing. Go now & sit to study.Life is all about study.If you study,U can be rich,you will get everything orderly!This is the life moto!" He was confused as he didnt know exactly what was the actual purpose of life!So he accepted his father's life moto,but never believed!

His friends asked him to play Football, Cricket etc.But he never got permission to go outside to play with friends.His friends invited him to their home or many places to give 'Adda' which means meeting & chatting! Even this was forbidden for him as his father told him all boys who used to make friends & enjoy with friends were bad boys.They are losers! You should study only!Ultimately his world was restricted between School & home & study in the middle!for once he was become suffocated & also become purposeless as he could do nothing at to this at that time!

Many years have passed.Now he has completed his study & still on the way to the mission to fulfill his father's dream of becoming rich!! But this long term invisible jail has made him a different personality now!! for that Some call him Egoistic,some call him fool,some call him unsocial & uncultured,some call him loser,some call him autistic & so on.He wants to talk & sometimes in some cases he knows how to talk but doesnt know how to express.Sometimes his friends misjudge him as well because he still cant figure out what will be the appropriate words to win the hearts of every friend!but the truth is u cant win every heart in this real world! He sees all his friendzones have ceratin groupes & u have to be a member of any of those groups & have to support all their activities right or wrong.Otherwise no groups will allow you in their friend categoy!So he gets used to have short time friends or long time 'by name' friends!! He is still in the process!

Recently he feels happy.Because he has fully devoted himself to fullfil the purpose of life(He is muslim & he Believes oneday we all pass away & return to One Creator Allah (SWT)) & he started to get stuck to this.Because by This way he feels internal peace & doesn't feel the necessity of having so many friends around him! & more importantly he cant deny that truth!!!

5
$ 0.00
Avatar for T.khan
Written by
4 years ago
In communities: We are Bangladeshi(1bc0) , Matters of The Heart MTH(4ac8) , Life Story(63dd) , Share some thoughts (SST)(89db) , Writing(b7c7)

Comments

i think the whole story belongs to you. nice article.and many many welcome to this group.thank you.

$ 0.00
User's avatar AmitDhar
4 years ago

So did he become a painter artist ??

$ 0.00
User's avatar Monskins
4 years ago

Do you think after all of these,there is any chance of becoming a painter?I dont think so..But luckily he became another professional which is more novel than that!

$ 0.00
User's avatar T.khan
4 years ago

Yes because I quit med school. You can quit too I mean he can be painter if he is strong Already enough To stop being held by influences of the other people instead of following the calling of god, god is the calling from your heart not from others plus I was unsocial before. But no circumstances, not from others, nor environment can tell you your own path..

$ 0.00
User's avatar Monskins
4 years ago

Monskins Thank you so much for your advice! But problem is not about painting ! The Problem is his circumstances didn’t allow him to do anything creative!He didnt get the opportunity to play with friends, spend time with them & that made him unsocial!Because Whole life he lead an restricted life doing only study! So now he wants to be social but here is also a problem bcz all are selfish & have groupings in this world now! Thats the challenge he is facing now!So pray for him......Oh one thing He had no complain of what he became instead of painter!Because He realizes his profession is the one that can save people lives!

$ 0.00
User's avatar T.khan
4 years ago

Ohhh before I have that notion too. You still want to play the hero and save lives. Ok go to that phase. You will understand soon. Dr. Khan :) You can save people by your paintings too. But since you’re caught up by others expectations. Anyways goodluck. I cannot say anymore. It is for you to learn.

$ 0.00
User's avatar Monskins
4 years ago

Ok...Its nice talking to you.I dont know why did u quit med school.U may have also bad story 😥 but I agree with you.Best of luck with your own journey! pray for me also 🙂

$ 0.00
User's avatar T.khan
4 years ago

@kaniz @amit @arnavaria @salman.sonnet @munia @payel @pabel @piku @mjmurshed @olad @stevone @rubaya He is new in this platform. Please welcome him

$ 0.00
User's avatar Alifa
4 years ago

Welcome to this platform bhaiya.hope you will enjoy here..keep posting article.we will get to know about your post.

$ 0.00
User's avatar AmitDhar
4 years ago

Who is he?

$ 0.00
User's avatar Arnavaria
4 years ago

Tahmid bhaia..12th

$ 0.00
User's avatar Alifa
4 years ago

Wow! Welcome to this flatform! Now it is getting more popular and an extra source of income for us.Hope someting great from you brother.

$ 0.00
User's avatar Arnavaria
4 years ago

Yeah..you are right!..Not only an extra source of income but also an opportunity for those who want to practice free writing but didnt get the suitable platform for that!!!....Thank u by the way..Keep reading my articles..

$ 0.00
User's avatar T.khan
4 years ago

Yeah. I see.. Welcome to this platform. Hope we get new article.

$ 0.00
User's avatar Mjmurshed
4 years ago

Thanks @Mjmurshed Yeah...I will try to post new articles..Keep reading my posts! 🙂

$ 0.00
User's avatar T.khan
4 years ago

People can fulfill their dream if they are willing to do what they want.. My parents always wanted me to be doctor. But I always wanted to have my own confectionary where I can sell my own baked food items. I fulfilled my parents dream..Iam a doctor now. But I never gave up my dreams. I bake a lot. I cook a lot. And hope so I will fulfill my dream too.

$ 0.00
User's avatar Alifa
4 years ago

@Alifa You are so lucky that Your parents atleast never hate u doing baking! Sometimes u dont need to inspire someone to unleash their inner potential! for eg: do u know about Bonsai tree??Growing a bonsai is cruel. You stunt the growth, stop the roots from growing, bind their branches with a wire.The idea of keeping a tree in a small container to purposefully inhibit its growth!!

$ 0.00
User's avatar T.khan
4 years ago

You have fulfilled your parents dream now you can do whatever you want.. As a part time or in leisure time.. You dont spend your leisure by working. You just fulfill your dreams. Thats what leisure is about.

$ 0.00
User's avatar Alifa
4 years ago

@Alifa Thanks for your opinion.I agree with you.But U r now expecting from a Bonsai tree to grow like a real tree giving it space to grow with sunlight & water after being deprived of all the things it needed earlier to grow!!..Even if other trees may get back to life & grow,Bansai trees never..That boy's life is kind of Bonsai tree!

$ 0.00
User's avatar T.khan
4 years ago

Bonsai trees have no option.. But human beings are free to fly.. They can do anything. Impossible is a word found in fools dictionary.

$ 0.00
User's avatar Alifa
4 years ago

You are right! but Human being can make choice to remain as a Bonsai tree too! some people dont feel the need to make impossible possible! there is something called"Losing interest, passion" & Human being can win the world by that!! thats what the boy is missing now!!

$ 0.00
User's avatar T.khan
4 years ago

Yes then you will just see patients for part time but cook fully. Yes I like that...although you might be a Michelin star by now if you have followed your will fully 🤔😂😂😂 but he completely Did not follow his heart which is sad

$ 0.00
User's avatar Monskins
4 years ago

Hahaha no cooking and baking will be my part time.. My leisures are spend in kitchen. I am happy any ways.

$ 0.00
User's avatar Alifa
4 years ago

If you’re happy then that’s all that matters

$ 0.00
User's avatar Monskins
4 years ago

Monskins Thank you so much for your advice! But problem is not about painting ! The Problem is his circumstances didn’t allow him to do anything creative!He didn't get the opportunity to play with friends, spend time with them & that made him unsocial!Because Whole life he lead an restricted life doing only study! So now he wants to be social but here is also a problem bcz all are selfish & have groupings in this world now! That's the challenge he is facing now!So pray for him......Oh one thing He had no complain of what he became instead of painter!Because He realizes his profession is the one that can save people lives!

$ 0.00
User's avatar Ruba
4 years ago
About us Rules What is Bitcoin Cash? Affiliate program Get sponsored Self-host