Lower Or Higher Desires
"Stay single or if you can't handle it go & get married " ðŸ¤
This was one of the rephrase I can remember from reading the new testament.
The other day I've watched this content from Quazi a little bit closer to what Napoleon Hill is talking about holding our "lust particles" so as to create more meaning and value in life.
Although other beliefs like Hinduism etc. and neuro-scientists believe in this, they may or not aware of it that Jesus talked about it as well.
Quazi in his YouTube video explains from his studies that when we watch "po*norgraphy" or read alike contents (that Jesus spoken as-when you looked to a woman with a lust in your hearts), we are wired to instant or lower shorter desires that will also wired us to "never enough or no contented achievements".
Achievements from grateful & meaningful ways are not bad, but there are things we instantly desire, "short spikes" but not long term and that is lesser than creating & valuing an honorable life- in short being in our flesh and not the Higher Spirit (that again Jesus told us to mind what is Philippians 4:8).
When we hold the "se*ual desires" as singles we can delay our gratification & seek for more meaningful relationships, purpose and life creations with goals & bringing it to your couple life if you are destined to get married. In your lifetime in the Spirit which is creative and loves life, you can achieve with contentment & long term success in every level, with your partner & kids or being single.
Quazi called it higher desires, I realized it's the Creator design and plans for us, that even if we desires with our flesh that is so weak, the Spirit can still redeem us from that messy lower desires & that lead us to more fulfilling life & decisions, that you will live contentedly, may it be in progress or excellence until afterlife. Free Image from Unsplash.
Here's cheering on your higher desires,
SuperJulalaine 💜
I was recently watching on Youtube how things like pornography hurt our personal goals. Somehow it makes us unproductive, in addition to hurting our mind with unrealistic desires or ideas.
I think it is something that has cloth to cut. And as you say, when relationships are based on other aspects they allow them to be more lasting.
People today only think about satisfying their desires. They believe that this way they will find the right partner. The serious mistake is that they waste time, because they don't use it to really get to know the other person. By the time they realize it, it is too late, as they find themselves in a relationship with a stranger with whom they are not happy.
However, it is a difficult concept to understand for some people. Because their brains are full of dopamine.