You do not Leave because you Love

Many times I have heard that people said that they have left someone, because they loved him or her too much.

I personally od not think it is true. When you love someone a lot, the last thing that you want to do is to leave that person.

When you love someone, you fight for that person, you are ready to be a better person, because of the person you love. You do not leave.

Peole do not leave because they love too much, they leave because they are selfish. They are not ready do fight, they do not want to change, and they give up and leave. Leaving someone you love is nothing but giving up.

I agree that you can love someone that you have left, but you did not leave because of love. Love is never a reason to leave.

Not fighting for love is a reason.

Of course, you can also leave because the other person did not want to fight or to be better.

And that is fine.

Both of those are fine. If you do not have time, strength or the will to fight or to change, that is fine, you can always give up, and nobody should judge you because you do not owe anything to anyone, except to yourself to have your inner peace. So, it is okay to leave, but do not lie to anyone that you left because of love.

First of all, tell yourself the real reason why you left, and trust me, you will feel better about leaving. You will feel released, you will get your inner peace, and you deserve it , no matter why you left.

Second, do not use love as an excuse, you do not need any excuse, when you are clear with yourself and the reason why you have left, you do not have to explain it to others. People want to know, everything, but you do not owe them that. They want to know, but they do not have to know.

Sometimes it is much better to keep your break up and reasons for it, for yourself, and to keep moving forward. Keep your private things private, and do not excuse yourself to others because there is not any good reason for that.

What is yours sometimes should be only yours. Give yourself time to find your reasons for break up and to accept them. After that you will be free and you will feel good.

'I left because I loved him too much', just does not feel right, does not feel like true. And, what is the worst about this, it gives you hope that in the future things can get better, they cannot. If they chould be better, they would be better. If you and your ex partner could make it work you would make it work.

If you are the one who could not change that is okay, you are okay. Sometimes, we just cannot some things and that is fine. But we need to accept things as they are, because we can heal only from accepted things.

Leaving is okay, just do not lie to yourself and to other person.

Say the truth and keep looking for your happiness.

xoxo,

SuncicaZ.