Woman who Cries...

... at other people's weddings.

Last couple days we can see on the all social networks photos of a woman who is on a wedding, she stays next to a freshly married couple and she cries.

Those photos were really very interesting to me and they made me think about some very important things that are happening to many people.

You can find some other photos with this woman and this couple, and that made me think that is was some kind of a joke, this can be a forever alone firend, or for example his or her sister who des not like her or him. But, anyways, this photo made me think about the situation that is shown.

I watched her as a forever alone friend, who is desperate about her own situation and weddings are just making her feeling worse.

I am pretty sure this is a joke, but at the same time it is very serious, I am sure that nobody is really screaming and crying on the weddings, but many people are feeling like the girl from the photo.

Many people think that there is no a perfect person for them and that they will be alone forever.

And, why is that happening?

I personally think that being with someone is only up to you. It is up to your energy and your manifestation, your state of mind. If you are opened for a relationship, truly, deep inside of your mind, you will find someone, if you are not, for any reason, you will not find anyone. Maybe it seems to you that you want someone, but deep down you do not. Many people think they want to be in a relationship, but for some reason they cannot and they know that, just they do not know that they know that. Someone is not ready for that, someone does not have a time, someone works too much, someone wants some other kind of a relationship...

And, that is okay, you just have to be sure what you really want. You have to realize do you really want a relationship.

And, next thing, that is also very important is to realize what kind of relationship and what kind of a partner you want for yourself.

Many people would say I want someone to love me, to be a good person and some similar, general things... but after that, they would say many other things. In case that you have a very long list of things that you want your partner to have, to do and to be, do not expect many people to be good enough for you. You simply know exactly what you want and it will take a time for life to bring that to you.

Let's make an example, if you go to the store to buy a black shoes with high heels, you will find them easily, but... If you go to the store to buy pink shoes with black details, golden heel with chains and some rivets on the sides. And you want them to be made out of metal and leather, and you want the heel to be 13cm high, and you want the inside of the shoe to be light pink and the sole to be black with golden sparkles... well, maybe you will have to visit many stores before you find them.

It is the same situation with finding a perfect partner for yourself. It will take some time. It is good to know wxactly what you want, but you also have to be ready to wait, you have to be patient, you have to learn how to wait.

Good things come to those who wait.

Now, the most important part. Learn how to make good things come to you. Being patient is not enough.

If you want someone to love you, first you will have to love yourself. Other learn from you how to behave with you. So, if you do not reaspect and do not love yourself, other people will not either.

Next is to be happy alone. If you want to be happy with someone, first you have to be happy alone. With yourself. Happiness will bring you more happiness.

Manifest good things by being happy and good person.

Do not scream on the other people's weddings, be happy for them. Truly happy for them. Their happines should be a proof to you that people can be happy, that people can find a perfect person for themselves. Their happiness should be a hope for you. Say to yourself, he or she found her or his soulmate, I will find mine too. It is possible, people are happy, life is good and amazing things are happening to people all the time. Amazing things will happen to you, good people will come into your life.

Enjoy your life and love yourself.

See you soon,

SuncicaZ.