Want to Find a Husband?

A couple days ago, I saw a video on the Instagram. It was made by one girl, and the sound that she used is not hers, but I do not know who the original author is. Anyways, in that video you can hear a female voice saying that if you want to find a husband you should visit Tinder, that there are a lots of husbands, but that they are probabblu already someone's husbands.

For those who do not know Tinder is a dating app. And, yes, some researches are showing that there are really a lots of husbands, but also lots of wives. Many taken people have accounts on this kind of app. And, why is that?

I am trying to figure out, for a very long time, why are people doing such things, when they are taken. Why do taken people have need to chat, to see, and at the final point to cheat their partners?

And, some of the results of this thinking and research are horrifying. Many people live with someone, they do not love at all. Many people just cannot leave. Imagine living wiht someone, just because you cannot leave and cheating on that person to make your life less miserable. To make yourself living a bit better.

And, imagine the other side, living with someone and knowting that he or she is chaeting on you. And, still living with that person just because you have to, because you cannot leave.

People cannot leave for many reasons, and I will leave only a couple here:

• They are too weak. Many people are cheating or living with a cheater, because they are too weak to leave. They are with that person for too long, they cannot cope with stress that break up is bringing. They do not care anymore. And, they are there forever stuck in a relationship that is not good at all. That side of your life that is not good can destroy all other sides. You need to be strong, you need yourself. Just get up and leave, solve your problem. You deserve happiness.

• They have children. And this is a big mistake, huge. Children cannot be happy if they are living with parents that are not happy. Childrne should not watch and listen you fighting. So, just explain to your children that a good break up is much better than a relationship that is not good at all. If you failed in a relationship, it does not mean that you will fail as a parent too.

• They live together. Many times partners live together in one apartment and the one who wants to leave, does not have where to live. This can be a huge problem, because people, many people, cannot afford to buy a house, flat or to pay rent. I know that it might be hard, but if you leave toxic relationship, where you are not happu and where you are cheating or being cheated on, leave. It is better to live in a very tiny apartment and work hard to be happy, than to stay where you are not happy. You will work hard and at one point you will get bigger apartment, and you will be happy.

Those were just three interesting and common reasons. I know that there are many other reasons, and I cannot know them all, and I cannot know how every single person can feel in that kind of situation. But, trust me in that kind of relationship, things can only be worse and worse.

And, it is not important are you cheating or you are being cheated on. Leave, just leave. Things will not get better, you are not going to change. He is not going to change. She is not going to change. cheaters do not change, they will cheat again and again.

If you are not respected leave.

If you do not respect leave.

In both cases it would be better to just pack your things and leave.

Even if a cheater can have a relationship without cheating, he cannot have it with someone who he cheated on already.

That was it for this article, I think that it would be great to have a little series on this topic, and I will write a couple more articles about this topic. There are a couple very interesting songs about cheating, also some movies, and it would be great to see how cheating is shown to us in popular culture.

That was it for the first part, see you very soon with a new one!

SuncicaZ