Should Clothes Fit on Us?

Or should we fit into the clothes?

Last couple days everyone is talking about Met Gala, and that made me want to talk about it too.

First of all, I would love to say that there were many amazing creations, many amazing outfits that I really like a lot.

All of them were unique and original and they are teaching us that we should be original, that fashion is here to express ourselves, that we can wear whatever we feel like. And, that is okay, that is the great side of the fashion. We wear clothes that is expressing who and what we are. Actually, we are always chosing outfits that are expressing us.

That is why we should talk a lot about fasion as a way to express our uniqueness. Wear clothes that is making you feel good about yourself. Wear clothes that is making you happy.

In my opinion, we should use things, and clothes are just things, no matter how pretty or expensive clothes is, that are making us feel good.

Material things are here to be used, not to be loved, admired, or whatever, they are here to be used. So, use clothes, do not change yourslef because of clothes.

Last couple days everyone is talking about Kim Kardashian and the dress she was wearing. She was wearing Marilyn Monroe's dress, and she had to lose 8kg to fit into the dress.

Many people, from all around the world support this and think that the dress is amazing, but there are also many people who think that this is wrong for many reasons.

It is very simple, if you cannot fit into the dress, do not wear it. If you want to lose weight, that is okay, do it, but not because of the dress.

Mariliyn has worn it and it is amazing dress, but it is still just a dress.

You are beautiful, Marilyn was beautiful, Kim is beautiful, we are all beautiful, and we should not change our bodies because of clothes.

There must be something what you can wear and what will suit you great. You right now, without losing weight or gaining weight, without changing anything on your body.

Be free to wear whatever you want to.

Once I saw on a video by one Serbian influencer, and in that video she was wearing a shorts. She got a comment that said that she should not be wearing that shorts, because it is short and tight, and she is 'fat', and she is not supposed to wear it. She replied to that comment and simply said that is she was not supposed to wear it, it will not be made in her size.

That is all.

That is self confidence, that is slef love, that is the only right answer to the evil person who is body shaming anyone.

I say evil person, because I believe that people who are body shaming anyone are evil. We should not body shame anyone because of anything. If someone is skinny that is okay, if someone is short that is okay, if someone had plastic surgeries that is okay.

Let people live.

Stop making people think that beauty has a size of model or standard. It does not.

Enjoy your life, and love your body, your mind and your soul.

See you soon,

SuncicaZ!