If it Goes to Well...

...it goes downward.

Remeber this everytime in your life when you do not have any struggle in your life.

Things are not supposed to be easy, no matter what you are doing, if you are studying, working, doing whatever...

Here is one example, if you are a parent, and you feel that it is difficult, that is normal. If you sometimes feel tired, or that you do not know how to do something, or even you feel that you are loosing it, that is normal. There are many other people who are in a similar situation and who feel the same. You have to keep doing, to keep going, to keep climbing...

Or, if you are working, and your work is hard, really, really hard, and you feel weak and you feel desperate, that is also okay.

If your college is harder than it seemed it will be, that is fine.

If you are not working hard, are you sure that you are even working?

If things are easy, are they really for you?

As Dostoevsky once said 'There is not happiness in comfort, happiness is bought by suffering.'. If you have not worked for it, will you really enjoy it, or you will just get used to it, get bored and at the end get annoyed buy it.

I was already writing about people who got everything by doing nothing, their lives have no purpose. They do not feel complete, they do not feel 'useful'.

So, as Dostoevsky also said 'Happiness does not lie in happines, but in the acheivement of it.'. It is not about the goal, it is about the race, you know, sometimes you do not get to your goal, but your experience of race noone can take from you, ever.

Happiness is not a moment it is a process.

Struggling is meaning. It gives your life a purpose, and it makes you satiesfied and happy.

Next time when it seems to easy to you, think about it twice. Maybe it is going downhill, maybe you should change something, maybe you should change somthing. For example, set higher goals, find something harder to do, set any goal, if you do not have any goals at the moment...

In case that things are in place for a while, or they are going too easy, you should look around you. Maybe, your job is not enough for you, or you should find some creative hobbies, or you should try to do som,ething you love and what you are good at as your second job. Or, you should change people around you, maybe it is about them, maybe they are creatin the environment where you cannot develop yourself, because they are too passive.

Whatever it is, do not be afraid to change it, do not be afraid to search for a change. Change is sometimes the only choice that you have, if you want to develop yourself, if you want something better for yourself.

Also, one more thing is important, actually it is not one thing. Change your whole 'set-up', if it is needed.

For example, if you have lost your motivation to do good things for yourself, find it. Find your motivation on social media, follow people and things that are giving you positive energy. Watch movies that are giving you positive energy. Listen to positive music.

And last but not least, I know that for the previous thing I said it was last, but this one is last, I promise, fake it 'till you make it.

If you are sad, if you are losing motivation, if you feel that you are going downhill, get up and climb. And if you cannot climb, fake climbing, till you really start climbing.

Get your mindset ready for victory!

Set your goals, and start going upwards!

See you very soon,

SuncicaZ!