If I were you...

...I would do totally dufferent than what you are doing now. And, no matter how much effort you are putting in what you are doing. No matter how hard it is for you. No matter how important it is to you. You are simply not good enough, and I would be. I am better and smarter. Because, I know everything, and I know exactly what I would do if I were in a situation I have never been in.

I am pretty sure that those couple honest thoghts of all those people, who are telling you 'If I were you, I would...', and I am sure that you are sick of it. I am sick of it.

People constantlu have so many advices for you, they all the time know what is good for you, and something, what you are doing, they would do in a different ways.

People seem to forget that a benevolent piece of advice that you did not ask for, is still a peice of advice that you did not ask for.

Intentions are important, but sometimes you are annoying and people do not want you, even though your intentions are good. And, you need to respect that. You need to realize that people have their own small worlds, and they do not want you inside of those worlds all the time.

If people need help they will ask for it, if people need help they will show that they need it. Do not try to give to people, what they do not want you to give them.

What is the worst thing bout those situations, when people know better than you, what you should do with your life, is that they usully do not know what is the right thing to do. They just want to feel smart and important.

What they would rather say than all the things that they are saying is 'If I were you, and I am glad I am not you.'. And, that is because they also do not know what should be done. They are not sure, they are just saying thinkgs that seem smart and good to them.

That is all. People do not know. People are not better than you are. We are all equal human beings. You have a right to do what you think is good for you, you are allowed to make mistakes. We are all making mistakes. You are not supposed to listen to people, who know everything. People, 'who know everything', usually are not doing anything in ther lives, and if they are, they are making lots of mistakes.

Of course, if you have in your life, who loves you, and who you can trust, and what is the most important, who was in a similar or same situation, aks that person for advice. That kind of advice can help you. That advice is really useful, that person was in your place, and know how to get out of that place.

But, maybe, you cannot do it 100% same as that person did it, because we are all different, and that is why there are some things that you need to do alone, even if someone was in a ame situation. For example, when it comes to emotions, nobody can tell you what is the right thing for you. They cannot know how do you exactly feel.

Only you are you. Only you are in your place, and nobody can tell you what for you is good and what for you is not good.

Do what you feel.

Your intuition and your feelings will lead you. They will show you your parth and your place.

Other people will not take the responsibility for what you have done, even if they told you what to do. That is why you need ot make decisions. You are taking responsibility at the end, that is why you need to take a risk and to make decisions.

Take your life in your hands, and get out of the place where you are not on your own foot!

xoxo,

SuncicaZ!