Human weakness is to desire...

...to know what one does not want to know.

Says Moliere, and he is totally right. We always try, really, really hard to find out what we actually do not want to know.

Here is one simple example, you are trying hard to find out who are your children's friends. And, you are trying, giving your best, finding many ways, and at the end, you find out, and you are terrified. You find out that they are doing drugs, that they are criminals, that they are alcoholics...

You did not wanted to know that, that is breaking your heart, that is making you scared, that is horrible.

One more example, you think that your partner is cheating on you, and you are doing various things to find out, or you do not do anything. Anyways, you find out that you are right. Your partner is cheating. That breaks your heart.

You found out one more thing that you never wanted to know.

At the same time you needed to know. You got me, I am sure. Those things are not what you wanted, are not how you wanted them to be. You found out what is destroying you now.

But, when you think a bit about it, maybe it is good for you to know, maybe it is better to know than to live like it is all right, and it is not all right.

Again, it is all about the intuition, it pulls you to things that at the moment are not good, but when you think about them better it is much better to know than to do not know.

You cannot change some things, you cannot make them be different, you cannot change them, but you can accept them, you can fight with them, you can suffer and you can heal. I know that is hurts, and I know that life would be easier if you did not know that, but sometimes it is just better to know.

Now it is not good for you to know, but later it will be good for you to know, it will make you stronger, it will show you some important things.

What I wanted to say with this post is that your weakness now can be your strength later. What brings you down now, can make you fly tomorrow. Just accept things.

Do not think that it would be better if you never found them out, it would not.

Follow your stomach and use your weakness to make yourself stronger.

See you soon,

SuncicaZ.