Big Dreams Babygirl...

No risk, no profit, no story, no dreams...

A couple days ago I was writting about young men, who want everything and now, who want money, easy money. Lots of money in no time, and they have their path. If you are interested into their path, you can see that article here.

Today, I would love to write a bit about young girls who want the same. Their path is a bit different, but it also leads to the edge and sometimes pushes them over the edge.

The economical situation is not the best in many countries, all around the world. And, because of that many young women are frustrated and hopeless. They would do anything to get easy money and because of that they are not chosing way to aceheive their goals.

Usually we have a young girl, who looks pretty and has no money. Her parents are working sometimes for the whole day, but they cannot afford almost anything. People have to buy food, pay rent... and they do not have money to buy expensive clothes to their daughters or to pay them trips.

Girls are watching TV, reading magazines, surffing the Internet, and they see many expensive things all the time. We are living in era of consumerism. Expensive things are presented to us as something what we need and what will make us happy.

Social networks are showing us people, who are all happy, rich and satisfied with their lives. Which is, as I said in my previous articles, normal, nobody will take a photo of himself crying or cleaning the toilet and post that online. We are posting nice photos of ourselves, and that is normal, but it is also normal to know that sometimes we do not look good, sometimes we do not feel good.

If a person is posting a photo of herself eating in an expensive restaurant, you have to know that the person worked for that. We can spend only money we have and in order to have money we have to work. That is the only way to really enjoy into spending money and to be proud of yourself while you are spending money.

Only hard work leads to good feeling while spending. Remeber that always. If someone gives you money you will not enjoy spending it as much as you would enjoy if you earned it.

Doing something and earning your own money is a great feeling. You will feel worth, you will feel capable, you will feel independent, and that cannot be bought, that cannot be replaced.

Let's get back to our poor girl. She is mad, she is hopeless, she has no time to study hard and to work hard later and to get one by one things that she wants to have.

She is seeing all those rich girls on the Instagram, and she does not know if they are working hard or they have a suggar daddy, or they have rich parents, and she does not care, she only sees that she is prettier than all those girls on the Instagram, but she does not have all those great things that all of them have.

And that is not fair, simply not fair... She has to do something about that... What she can do? She is so pretty but so poor, she wants all those things, and all those not so pretty girls have all that...

That is the point! She is so pretty!

Mne like her! A lot! Many men, young men, older men, rich men, directors, students, judges...

Say it again! Rich men!

That is the point, that is her kay to the life she wants to live. She could have any men with her pretty face and hot body, then why would not she find herself a milionaire?

She will, of course she will.

And, she does not need a lot of time for that.

Milionaire can give her a lot of money, can give her all those expensive things that she wants to have, but what does he think about her?

Maybe, you think that it is not important to her, and, at the begining it is not important to her, butlater will be.

Not his opinion of course, she does not love her, but his opinion will affect to his behavior. And, that is what is important to her.

At one point he realiyes that she onlzu wants his money, he realizes that she is only pretty from the outside, he realizes that she does not know what true love is, and he starts watching her as a thing.

Simply as that, barbie girl he bought for money, and when you buy something for money it is yours.

So he, we will call him Mr. Rich, and we will call her Babygirl, it is easier.

As I said, he realizes that he bought her, so, Mr. Rich starts to treat Babygirls as a doll that he bought. And, Babygirl does not like that at all...

She is not a doll, and she is not there to fulfill his wishes, she wanted Mr. Rich to do what she wants him to do, it seems that her beauty is not enough anymore.

She wants to change that, but she cannot.

There are a couple ways for her. First, she can have children with him, which will lead to more problems, because her body can change, and he will not like that. Remeber, he bought a perfect doll, imprefections are not what he wants. So, he can leave, or even worse he can stay there buy have some other babygirls, yes, lovers.

And, Babygirl cannot handle that, she is the prettiest one, she is the best one, why does he need other babygirls?!

Second choice that she has is to divorce, and leave. In that case she can lose everything, or she can get something from her. In both cases she will not be happy, because there are big chances for her to realize that love and respect are important.

And, in case that she gets something, she can spend it easily, and again she will have nothing, because as I said, she was not doing anything, and she does not how to invest money.

And, third is to stay with him. With him she is not happy anymore and because of that she can start doing drugs, for example, which can lead her to the edge and puss her over.

Every single way leads her to the some edge and puss her off.

So, money is not what buys happines, money is not what she wants, what she truly wants, but it is too late for her when she realize it.

There are many TV series and movies about this kind of a woman, and I think that we should have more, more realistic movies and series about it. We need to show girls that money is not what buys happines, and that they will never be happy if they sell themselves.

Remeber babygirl, noone can ever buy you, you are not a thing, you are not your money, and if you sell yourself, your money will never be yours, totally yours.
Remember babygirl, you can do and be whatever you want. You can be successfull woman, and you can buy to yourself everything what you want, if you work hard enough for that.
Spending money will feel much better if you spend money that you earned by working hard.

That was it for this article!

xoxo,

SuncicaZ.