Why long distance won't work!

It is a great day here, a new week as it is also a new time to get things done as ever before, so in my own way, I will be working on relationship. I have been in a long-distance relationship with a female counterpart before and that was my first and after then, there has not been any other yet. We met online and we started chatting. I asked her a few questions about herself, and she told me and asked me some questions too, which I responded to. At the beginning of the relationship it was remarkable and we both enjoyed it. But at a certain level, it became difficult for the two of us to understand the importance of our coming together.

There is nothing bad with being in the long-distance relationship yet, it does not work for few people who tried it. Some people tried it and got themselves to blame because of it. I would have loved to continue with the story, but it is not my emphasis for writing this post. My emphasis is about long-time relationships and problems that are associated with it.

One of the first thing for which noticed which caused difficulties with long-distance relationship is that the time for communication mostly is not enough or probably the major difficulties. If there is not enough conversation time between them. Other challenges follows from there. The only situation which does not rise from this basic communication time challenge is a scam. One of the related scam issue that happened which I found shocking is through a long-distance relationship between two people. The male counterparts devoted all his time to be in continuous communication and got all the information that he got until his mission was over.

One of the reasons why he was able to carry out such a great scam mission out through dating was because he creates intimacy with the young lady for seven months without the lady ever doubting the trustworthiness of the man.

Without a good communication time, it cannot be an easy thing to sustain a successful relationship. This has been a comlong-distancemon thing that happens in relationship today. Even a relationship between people at close quarters. Communication time affected my long-distance relationship with my partner.

To some people, they believe that once they are financially buoyant, and they can provide for the needs of their r partner who is far off, then everything has settled. However, provided that intimacy is not sustained, even with the much financial buoyancy the relationship might not be able to last for long.

Even though the relationship continues, yet there will be doubt from the female counterpart. A certain request to know the status of the person in question. He or she might start to doubt his position in the heart of such partner. Provided that better communication could not be suspended, the partner who feels more concerned or benefits more from the relationship becomes more vulnerable.

Sometimes, there is need to share feelings. Without sharing experiences, there are little or nothing to actually talk about. When they have less thing to discuss as well, it brings loneliness to the one that demands the regular conversation and that means there is a challenge to respond to in the relationship.

One major thing that also bring loneliness is when they send messages and could not get response on time. That is one thing that saddens many ladies is when they have something to gist their partner, and they send a message but did not get the expected response after a long wait. It shuts their ego.

What are the possible solutions to these? If I have the chance to write about it in my next post, it will be better.