Do you love me?

What is love when there is nothing to show for it, why do you claimed to love me when even your behaviour towards me contradicts what you confessed about your love and to whom you said you have given your heart to. It is so sad to hear all your recent claims about loving me.

This personal blog is not about any personal experience whatsoever but the topic itself is a question about whether you still want yo keep that relationship that and continue with the kind of situation like nagging. It would have not look serious without the title or the heading but that is what is giving me a reason to continue and directions.

I will like to make it clear that this is only a matter of relationship post but however, it is not anything related to my personal experience whatsoever but I will like you to take note of it very strictly and consider these few factors as though it was just What we need to know.

Relationship now these days is taking another shape totally and completely due to the gradual change in technology or those incidents that are happening around the world which are not with what is the right thing. However, the way that we respond the misunderstanding in relationship varies from person to another.

In this post, my emphasis is going to be a right attitude towards resolving issues between couple after disagreement. On a more serious note, in the world today, more of argument springed up between couple because of children responsibility and this could last for a long time before it get resolved.

Short storyline...

Take for an instance a family of a father, a mother, a male child and a daughter lived in a house where the father believed that training up a son is the due right and responsibility of the father and the mother should be the person to respond to the need of the daughter. This could be a rare believe but no matter what, it still happens in real life.

The woman was okay with that and she complained not, she was responsible for her daughter's training and upbringing and she even pays the daughters school fees by herself. At a point she was having misunderstanding with her husband and the would turn her down anytime she wants to reconcile with him in the course of her leisure time.

Unfortunately for her, a few week after they had disagreement, she lost her job and she became broken down and yet the husband won't forgive or reconcile with her as tthe case may be. The man still extend the aggression to their daughter that he refused to pay for her.

I will like to stop the story here, i hope that you enjoyed that short story, in continuation to hammer and emphasis something that deserves a critical thinking here. In so many relationship between couple, we found out that some couples when they have disagreement, they transfer the aggregation to their children which is very bad.

No matter what happens in your marriage, you must not let it affect your children because they are your responsibilities inasmuch as you are not divorced with your wife, or the court said you don't have right over the child anymore. Our children are our joy tomorrow and because of that little things.

I have come to the end of this post today and I will like to know what you feel about this post and your contribution, additional information is welcome but no abusive word is allowed.