A belt made of watches!

This topic sound strange right? It might sound strange but it is what you know about. Spare me few of your time. I hope I will not be taking much of our time, I was busy working on other parts of my life and that is why it seems I have been overactive... That's contradicting each other.

Trying to monitor your partner. One of the things that I noticed about relationships is that many relationships trust. If there is no trust in your relationship, kindly build the trust. The nearest person to you is your partner, and if you don't have trust in your partner, your life is not safe with such a person. It is equivalent to when you do not have trust in yourself.

The best way a human being in a relationship can get things complicated is to be in a relationship with someone who did not worth it. To avoid this, kindly be sure of the reliability of the person with who you are going into the relationship. One of my sponsors is shy to read relationship posts like this. It's just an assumption though.

The last time I posted a blog about relationships, he backed out immediately after opening the post without any hesitation. It is as if this place is for men and women. Every so often, many relationships start well, and both partners do it. That is when both of the two partners are faithful to each other.

Without any belt made of watches. I mean without wasting your time. I have considered a few things that, I believe, are not worthy of trying to do. The first thing that I consider is going into a relationship with a partner whom you have noticed to be having a habit that you don't like. Let's take smoking hemp as an example. In some situations, the nature of the weather may require that a person should smoke cigarettes.

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In cold weather conditions, some people smoke cigarettes to get their bodies warm. There is are regulations in some bars, where the cigarette is allowed, but smoking of Indian hemp is of high prohibition. If you are in love with someone who smokes Indian hemp, before the wedding. If he did not stop smoking the Indian hemp before the wedding, he won't change after the wedding. It is difficult to change such an attitude. No matter what, effort you have to try to make him stop smoking. It will prove futile. Believe it or not.

What about relationship whereby the boyfriend always beats the girlfriend. It won't get better so quickly. Do not go into such relationship with the believe that things will get better.

Second instance is Drinking excessive beers or alcohol. If you know that you don't like the behavior of a drunkard, or you dislike show alcohol smells. Make sure that your lover stopped at before the relationship will lead to marriage. Don't come and complain to me that your husband beats you every day. Trying to change him after the wedding will be "a belt made of watches". In some of the relationship that I have seen, one partner always believe that the partner will change, and the other believes that the partner will remain the same. Along the line, it doesn't go the same way.

Few men marry their partner because of beauty, with the belief that the beauty will remain for a whole lifetime. That's what I thought about beauty, too. But it doesn't last for a whole lifetime. If a man loved the female counterpart because of beauty, the love will reduce when the beauty starts to face away. As a woman, trying to get your husband attention back becomes so difficult at this point.

In general, what I have observed is that, characters of human being can be changed. But trying to change the characters of a human being halfway of a relationship is difficult and mostly a waste of time. Thank you for reading. I got the topic while reading some riddles this morning, and it simply says, “A belt made of watches is a waste of time”!

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