My dad's advice when I was looking for a good wife

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you.

Do not worry about the size of a woman buttocks

or breasts but worry about the size of her heart

and brain. Worry about the size of her love and

endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breasts or buttocks .

As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest

and almost flat buttocks but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still loves me.

Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, clothes, shoes, bags, panties and make-up.

Marriage is not all about these things. Without

make-up, clothes, shoes and panties a good

marriage will still stand but without love, no

marriage can stand.

When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a

car or house of my own. I was not even

educated. But I had dreams and she appreciated and supported me. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a-minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one.

My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind

of woman you should avoid, do not make the

mistake of marrying this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away.

One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that.

Please stay away!

Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks

for two hours and listen for two minutes is a

potential ‘bomb’. Be wise

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A

pretending woman is not hard to know. She will

always know everything about everything, she will be careful. Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see!

No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who

believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone then don’t let her go.

But remember, you must not be a wayward man.

I have trained you well!

If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage!

I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you

my advice. When you find her, bring her for my

blessings.