How do you handle critism
Hi guys How did your day go? Hope it went great. Well, I decided to drop this post here which is inspired my a recent happening in my life. I went out to get some stuffs, and while on my way back home, I over heard some boys who were sitting close to where I was passing, saying some negative stuffs about me. They said I was too uptight, always grumpy, too hard on people, too stuck up and very difficult to get close to. And I also heard them mention how much they hated me for all this things. When I heard all what they said, all I did was laugh, because, first of all, that isn't me, and secondly, I don't even know them so I figured they are just critics. One thing you need to know is that the number one aim of critics is to bring you down. Don't give them that opportunity, because once you do, they will take over and destroy you. The best way to handle them is by; _ignoring them _never give them a listening ear, to avoid it getting to you _don't take it personal cause their aim is just to bring you down, all what they are saying aren't really who you are. _most a times, It could be because they are jealous of who you are or what you have that they know they could never measure up to.
One thing you guys should always have at the back of your mind is that , not everyone will like you no matter how good you are, so get used to it. You know yourself better than anyone, don't let them get to you, just smile about it and move on. Have a nice day #stemecworld
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Inspired post sir, you can't Satisfy people don't let there words get to you.
That's the valid truth you can't please everyone no matter how hard you try. Just be yourself and don't let yourself be weighed down
Noted... I don't even have time for critics
Never listen the others believe in yourself and smile to hurt your haters
The truth is that no matter how good you are in life, people will still tend to talk ill about you,you just have to learn how to tolerate such people.
Exactly, you don't need to pay attention to these critics because their only goal is to bring everyone to their level which you can seem to stoop
U don't need to listen to critics cus they say all that cus they wanna bring u down
Thats very true. They shouldn't affect you, your plans and even what you think. All that matters should be you and what your view is
Noted... I don't even have time for critics
Critisms can make or break someone. If you let critisms get into you and take it negatively it only shows you have low self esteem that would you would find your self pleasing everyone around you and would be so conscious in what other people say or think about you... end up losing your self. Remember we cannot please everybody no matter what we do. Inorder for us to handle critism is to know our selfworth never explain yourself to anybody coz you know your self better than anybody else.
No matter how much the critics criticize us Not everything can be heard But I have to listen to some things so that I can prepare myself in such a way that no one can criticize me in the future.
Wow well said dear...