Time machine
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Have ever wished you could lay your hands on a time machine?? And what was the reason behind such wish???.
I know in life, we sometimes wish we had a time machine mostly because of regret. Either because of a missed opportunity, or to stop an event from taking place.
But in the aspect of stopping an event from taking place, do you know that some things were meant to happen in our life either to teach us a lesson, or to give room for better things to come into our life's.
Spending your entirely wishing you had a time machine will only distract you from the future. The things you are trying to change are part of your past, the past should be left in the past. What you should be doing, is arranging your life and making sure that the future you won't need a time machine. The only time I wished I could go back in time, was when I heard about the starting of bitcoin. I wished I could be a part of the early adopters. But after sometime, I came to understand that it's not too late to acquire bitcoin or other coin.
Meaning it's never too late to make a change in your life. Don't let your past define your future self.
When you miss an opportunity, you should create another, and not spend your entire life feeling sulky about the lost opportunity.
Life wasn't meant to always go smoothly, we are meant to encounter challenges which teaches us, and trains us for the future.
No matter how many regrets you have about your past, you will still find out that, there are still some beautiful moments that you wouldn't want to change. Those are what you should be focusing on and not the sad moments.
And besides, being able to go back in time, can't change your life, it will only leave it messed up, because, we make mistakes to learn. If we don't make mistakes, how would we learn.
There is nothing like a perfect life, people who you think have such life, had the roughest, childhood.
Stop thinking of yesterday and start thinking of today. You can't change what's already happened. What you should be thinking of is a way, of making your future self never wish for a time machine.
Have a beautiful day

How do you handle critism
Hi guys
How did your day go? Hope it went great.
Well, I decided to drop this post here which is inspired my a recent happening in my life.
I went out to get some stuffs, and while on my way back home, I over heard some boys who were sitting close to where I was passing, saying some negative stuffs about me. They said I was too uptight, always grumpy, too hard on people, too stuck up and very difficult to get close to. And I also heard them mention how much they hated me for all this things.
When I heard all what they said, all I did was laugh, because, first of all, that isn't me, and secondly, I don't even know them so I figured they are just critics.
One thing you need to know is that the number one aim of critics is to bring you down.
Don't give them that opportunity, because once you do, they will take over and destroy you.
The best way to handle them is by;
_ignoring them
_never give them a listening ear, to avoid it getting to you
_don't take it personal cause their aim is just to bring you down, all what they are saying aren't really who you are.
_most a times, It could be because they are jealous of who you are or what you have that they know they could never measure up to.
One thing you guys should always have at the back of your mind is that , not everyone will like you no matter how good you are, so get used to it. You know yourself better than anyone, don't let them get to you, just smile about it and move on.
Have a nice day
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Learn to forgive
I always tell myself that when you live your life without anyone hurting, disappointing, disgracing or offending you, then it means you never did anything worthy. The beauty of life is that it comes with disappointments and offences from people you least expect. Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time on the disappointments and offences and end up becoming victims of all circumstances. Remember this one thing always: Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. The fact is that the world is full of annoying, naughty and ungrateful people;You will always come across them during the gentle stroll of your life span;But the best thing to do is to deal with them with love and maturity;You can’t get everyone to behave like you....Never!!! Hatred and intolerance have caused many of the world's problems and have solved none of them;We must learn to tolerate and forgive one another;We must bury the faults of others and move on with life. As you read this piece, I beseech you to take the pain and forgive that special person you have grudges with and iron out your grievances;Muster the courage and apologise to that person you have offended; the clock is ticking;We are ageing;Grave is calling and we are not in charge. Life is short, you don't know how much time you have left; Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take;But by the moments that take our breath away. Tolerate and forgive others....... the only choice!