Molestation: I need advices

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4 years ago

Good day friends. I hope you are all doing well.

This is a very sensitive story am about to tell you all. Please treat it with much sincerity. I would really appreciate that.

Today haven't been a good day for me because i woke up to a very sad and shocking news ever.

I went over to my twitter account to read some updates and trending stories which i normally do on a daily basis and today unfortunately for me I was hit so hard with a trending news of a very close friend of mine being involved in a sexual molestation with some guys. He was accused by a group of guys on Twitter of sexually molesting them and it has gone round the whole country like a spreading virus. It has even been posted on news platforms.

To be honest I have known this boy of being a bi-sexual but I have never known him of doing such an act of molestation, and up till now i still can't believe he would do such a thing because I have known him right from childhood. I still believe this could be a plot to bring him down because of how successful he has been on his modeling journey in the country.

The worst part of it all is that bi-sexuality is not legal in my country which means he could go to jail for just being a bi-sexual and this boy is so popular on social media and he has gained so much endorsements which might be withdrawn if this accusations goes to another level. Most of you that deal on endorsements should know what I mean.

I am telling you all this story because I am still confused on what steps or actions to carryout as a friend. Defending him of all accusations looks wrong because it will seem like I am defending a wrong act. Conderming him also looks wrong because it will seem like I am a bad friend who supports him only when things are good and conderms him when things aren't good. Right now am being flooded with advices from some other friends to conderm him and stay away from him for good which is really hard for me because I am not that kind of person who leaves her friends when the need me the most.

I would really love to know what you all think I should do about this issue. I am in a tight spot and if something isn't done soon enough he is going to spend years in prison.

Thank you.

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Good article.you try to express your feelings get close to him

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Trust your heart and intuition on this one. Talk to him with your heart open. Not with your mind. Choose what you feel is right.

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,,Both male and female same-sex sexual activity is illegal in Nigeria. The maximum punishment in the twelve northern states that have adopted Shari'a law is death by stoning. That law applies to all Muslims and to those who have voluntarily consented to application of the Shari'a courts. In southern Nigeria and under the secular criminal laws of northern Nigeria, the maximum punishment for same-sex sexual activity is 14 years' imprisonment.''

Wow. God does not allows sexual crimes to be punished since the acts of jesus. Therefore, its morally acceptible if you dont do anything and continue interacting with him, like nothing ever happened.

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