Happiness

It’s a season of love as we all know, endeavor to be happy. As the year is coming to an end try as much as possible to do things that would make you happy. Run away from violence, trouble and all sorts.
Let’s live in love and happiness. We have seven more days for the year to finally come to an end, please let’s try and put up our best behavior, love one another, settle all disputes and be happy.

Let’s be filled with Thanksgiving. This is the time to reflect on the past months and thank God for how far you’ve gone, where he’s taking you and the plans his got for you. This is the time to think deep and surrender all to God. This is the time you let go of your past and move on. This is the time you pour out all grudges you’ve had, and leave it to God to fight your battles for you.

This is a season of giving. Don’t get me wrong! We all have that thing we don’t want to use anymore. It doesn’t necessarily mean money, it could be clothes, it could be food, shoes, salt, anything within your power. Let’s try to give out whatever little thing we have to help the needy. Every little smile can touch somebody’s heart. No one is born happy, but all of us are born with ability to create happiness. Create your own happiness!.

You can create your own happiness by developing a positive mindset. Don’t dwell on the negative, especially in regards to how you see yourself. Focus on enhancing what’s good in your life as opposed to fixing what’s wrong.
Accept that happiness is something you can provide yourself. Don’t wait on friends to make you happy.
Always put on a smile. You’ve heard this one before that physically expressing emotion actually gives rise to that emotion in the body and mind has been around 200 years, and is supported by billions of smiles a day.
Try and abandon thoughts that distress or depress you.
Stop judging yourself. Even if you’ve done something wrong, try not to judge yourself too harshly for it. Do take ownership of what happened, but do so with love and compassion for yourself.
Be mindful. Pay attention to all moments without analyzing or judgement.
Surround yourself with positive people. The best predictor of your happiness is the strength of your personal relationship and the amount of time spent with loved ones. Try as much to avoid relationships with people who judge you, or don’t respect you. Run away from toxic relationships, friendship. Run away from anything that may bring sadness to your heart this season. Let’s love our neighbors just as we love ourselves. Don’t keep grudges with anyone.
Always compliment yourself. Focus on what you’re doing well by giving yourself regular compliments. Don’t wait for anyone to tell you “well done” tell yourself every single day. It makes you think positively about yourself.

Do whatever makes you happy this season. Yes, you will be pushed to anger but try not to do things you’ll regret. Handle every situation with patience and love for your own happiness.
Stop comparing yourself to other people. Everyone is on their own journey, so it’s unfair for you to measure your progress by looking at what others have accomplished. Instead, compare yourself to where you were in the past and see how far you’ve gone.
Be happy all through the season. Spend Christmas with your loved ones. Have fun, but make sure there are no regrets.
Try new things this season. For instance, if you’ve been thinking on trying some certain foods, try them! If you’ve been wanting to go to a certain place, go and have fun. But, I believe in balance and tranquility, you can’t have enough of everything. Do things in a good way and not too much.
stay safe. Use all preventive measures as you’re going out. Stay away from trouble this season. Love one another, and pray everyday. Merry Christmas in advance ❤️