Anger

Anger is a strong feeling that makes you want to hurt someone or be unpleasant because of something unfair or unkind that has happened. There’s no advantage of getting angry, instead it destroys so many things. I know it’s not easy to control anger, but it can be corrected. It’s not everything that deserves a reaction from us, somethings are better left unsaid. Walk away from things that would get you angry. If your flaw is anger, this is not to judge you, but it an assurance that nothing can’t be changed.

Ella lives with her boyfriend in school. Her boyfriend happens to be my neighbor at school. Whenever Ella is angry with her boyfriend, she prefers breaking his stuffs. I’ve heard of so many misunderstandings they’ve had, but the last one got the mother involved. Ella was angry with Joshua, her boyfriend, she slammed his phone on the floor and went ahead to his Hp laptop and broke it. Josh has been living with this for over a year, but he couldn’t live with it anymore. He took her to the police station to report her, and when the policeman instructed her to write a statement, she swore she was going to struck the pen into his eyes. The policeman was shocked and instructed he take her away. He started looking for ways to deal with her and make her repair his laptop, as that was the only channel he get his money from.
Joshua is a graduate, who is fully into cryptocurrency. Ella is a 300lv student, studying science laboratory technology.
Joshua went ahead to report Ella to her HOD( head of department). The woman summoned Ella , and asked her if she did what the guy said she did, she said YES. Joshua was asked how much he needed to repair his laptop and he said, she should pay the sum of sixty thousand naira only. That he is going to balance it up. The HOD then asked some meaningful questions, then told Ella she has few days to get the money, she said failure to get the money before 28th of December will make her forfeit her admission.

This morning, Ella’s mom called Joshua that a woman called her from Ella’s department, saying if she doesn’t pay for a broken laptop, she’s going to forfeit her admission. Joshua confirmed that all she said was true as her daughter has been destroying his properties for a while. Ella’s mom then said her daughter told her she was slapped by him that’s why she broke the laptop.
Ella’s admission is on stake, while her mother too is trying to wage war against Joshua.

There are things anger destroys, it has never created anything good. You can speak to your anger. Try controlling it, not every argument deserves a reaction from us. Try walking away from trouble. Some ladies are well known for lousiness and trouble, you can drop all these and become a better person. Be known for peace and humility. Let them speak good of you. Stop being famous for awkward things. Don’t make anger get the best of you. You can always walk away when you’re angry.
There are things you can do whenever you’re angry, and they are:
* Tell yourself to calm down.
* Force yourself to leave the situation. Take a time out, walk away, and avoid coming back too soon.
* Use visualization to calm down. You can close your eyes and picture yourself in your favorite place.
* Slow down and focus on your breathing.
* You can phone a friend. Go out and do something fun, trust me you definitely going to forget someone got you angry.
Don't allow anger to get the best of you. Trust me you definitely going to regret whatever you said or did when you were angry. Try as much as possible to control your emotions, talk to your inner mind to slow down. Don’t react to every shade thrown at you. Patience is the solution to anger. Trust me, people love to see us at our lowest, they want to see the best you are capable of doing, just leave them mute, don’t react.

I hope this piece helps someone who is dealing with anger. You can as well drop yours in the comment session, tell us what you do to suppress your anger. Do have a lovely day!