The first step in solving a problem is to abandon some misconceptions that we have adhered to… some irrationalities… some mitigating circumstances… or simply put some lies… which we have lied so nicely… and for a long time… E.g… It is impossible to lose weight if you do not regulate your diet… It is impossible to make money from a bookmaker… It is impossible to fall asleep by force… It is impossible to find a guy in your own house… It is impossible to pass the exam without learning… And so on… and so on… Leaving the wrong way of thinking… ie lying to yourself… is the best thing you can do… Extreme mitigating circumstance… Maybe it's just that first step… ("which begins the journey of a thousand miles")… And it will allow you to make your desires a goal… And who has a goal… can make a plan easier… Who has a plan… knows where ... when ... how and how much to invest will ... effort ... sacrifice and effort… And those people find success easily afterwards… They just go in the same direction…