Could age stand in the way of our dreams?

The starting point for achieving any achievement is the desire, do not think that there is anything that could hinder your arrival, not even age, as age is just a number nothing more

Many of us feel a huge barrier that prevents him from going the path that he plans, hindering him from moving forward and getting to where he wants, this huge obstacle that can stand before us all is the obstacle of life, we often feel that life has passed fast, and that our goals are now It does not suit our ages, we may feel that we have grown up and should have sought to achieve these dreams at a younger age, perhaps we are afraid of starting from scratch in something new, and we think that a lifetime has already passed to enjoy a certain achievement in life.

Are there obstacles to achieving dreams?

In fact, I do not see this, there are no barriers or obstacles that can prevent a person from pursuing the realization of his dream, his goal and his desire in life, especially the age that many people think is the biggest obstacle, in many cases we put such obstacles in mind in order to serve as An excuse that prevents us from achieving our dreams, a reason that relaxes our conscience from stopping moving forward, and our feeling of fear may be the reason that makes us excuses.

Although fear is not an excuse but it is a natural feeling, it is natural for people to feel fear, because following what you want and walking after your dreams is a bit of a risk that puts you in emotional, mental and physical tests always, but what you can do most to confront this fear is Keep moving forward, as continuing is the only thing that can kill your fear of achieving your goals. The more you are able to take a new step by step, the more you will kill a portion of the fear that is inside you.

Why do some people see that age is an obstacle to achieving dreams?

Age is one of the biggest obstacles that some people create as an excuse to achieve their dreams, and this is because many people - and I was one of them - believe that certain goals must be reached at certain times, and that goals must be achieved at a specific age, whether this applies to a university degree or A job, marriage, or having a child and so on, so that we see that many people link marriage to age, and they think that after a certain age they have missed the opportunity to get married, or that the university degree is linked to a certain age, so that if it is not obtained by this age it will be Shameful to complete my education later.

As for me, I had a feeling in the previous period, and this is what prompted me to write what I write now, I also fell into the well of the age barrier, and I felt that I had grown up to the point that my age became not suitable to achieve my dream of traveling as I had dreamed since I was at the beginning of twenty years of age, Every now and then I had a feeling while whispering to me, "Can you start over now?" About 10 years of your life have passed since the time you wanted to travel, work and see new places, so is this right for you now?

I will not deny that this was a bit frustrating to me, but despite this I never felt that I would give up this dream, so I thought: As long as I will not give up my dream, why should I bother myself with such negative thinking? Let me get rid of this thought immediately and focus on the steps to achieve my goal and continue to strive towards it.

And there may be a reason why some people think this way, for example women suffer from fear due to age when it comes to having children, because they know that childbearing is linked to a certain time, and that there are many years in which they must raise, but I do not see that this is a justified fear, in In fact, I saw a large number of pregnant women at an old age, and I also saw many who could not conceive despite their young age, and I saw mothers who give birth in their twenties and God dies, and people who give birth in their forty years and God extends their ages to raise their children, age is just a number, and we do not have any control In it, and it is never a requirement that we have a long life just because we are young.

What do you do when you want something in life?

Do not let your age hinder you from doing anything in life, you do not know what will happen tomorrow, so there is only today in front of you, except the moment, in which you do what you want, and know that what suits others does not necessarily suit you, it can suit others Marriage at a young age, but this is not what you dream about, you want other things, you want to start a business, you travel professional trips and explore new countries, you want to be in a new place every period, so do what suits you, life has no fixed laws It applies to everyone.

Do what your heart dictates to you, follow your passion, follow what makes you happy, and see only what you have achieved and not what others have achieved. When you want to do something or have a goal or dream, start implementing it directly, do not stop and do not think that you have grown up on Start realizing this, do not start making excuses because you are afraid, and do not allow negative thoughts to creep inside you because they will kill your joy, excitement and ambition, instead run after your dream and start to achieve it, life is very short, and we all have nothing but the moment in which we are already living, so We must take advantage of it and hold on to it.

Don't be afraid to take risks either, because everything we do in life is governed by risk, and if you are not willing to risk something every time you want to achieve a dream or goal, you will still be in your place doing nothing, and you will still do the normal things that most people do. You will not reach a great thing unless you take a risk, for all our dreams can only be achieved if we have the courage to walk the path leading to them, and know that success is a set of failed attempts that end with a successful one that culminates in everything you have done. The most important thing is not to lose enthusiasm. Not to lose desire, enthusiasm and desire are the bright torch that will illuminate your path to the end.