Well, let me clarify this before continuing the post. I must thank @Loucy and @Kike9781, who gave me this idea. They posted cool things about love, "What is love?", by Loucy, which was awesome and Kike surprised me because he didn´t bring us one, but two posts about love!: "A love story..." and "An unexpected love" Please check them out because I know you will enjoy them so much their posts.

So well, this is not the first time I talk about love on these platforms (read and noise), but this is the first time that you will read (just a little) my own experience with loving someone and what I´ve understood in the process.

I never imagined I´d find love.

Yep, I mean, to be honest, when I was in high school, I had two girlfriends but, with all drama and fake promises a school romance is supposed to be. My last teenage relationship finished a few months before school ended, and now, new experiences were coming.

Years of parties and failed relationships, girls who rejected me (honestly, at least 5), and a little voice that told me: "You´ll be alone if you continue this way as$h0l3", were my day by day. But when I didn´t expect love, it appeared in a very curious way.

Old faces, new feelings

If there is something I like about technology, is it can join and connect people, no matter they may live, and this is cool. And social networks helped to find something I didn´t know I was looking for, in someone I never imagined.

My time in high school was so bad, I couldn't be happier the day I said: "Finally this is over", because it was awful. Elementary school was kinda different, I was a kid, and I lived cool moments of my childhood I will never forget.

The point is that thanks to social networks, I could find someone from my childhood, the last time I saw her was like in sixth grade, and I didn't know anything about her for around 111 years.

Curious fact: We had studied since the kinder garden, so, we grew up together for a long time. So, after some hours looking at her pictures, I told myself: Cowboy, you gotta text her".

To make this post shorter, yep, she was my girlfriend after 3 months of some flirting, and 5 years after, we stay together!

Cool people, with cool content

Learning about love

It was a new experience for me, and new feelings as well. I couldn´t help thinking about her all day long, I texted her several times during the day when I had a break at work, and I tried to see her on weekends, and I started to love her more and more.

Everybody talks about the fancy face of loving, but love is not just good and happy moments. I remember one week that I was so sick, I didn´t work and I had to cancel a date with her, and when I was resting at home she arrived, with some soup, some medicine, and a dessert! Since that moment I thought: "She is the one".

One month later was her turn, she was sick, and of course, I did the same. I even visited her in the hospital, she was ok, but I felt nervous because she was there. I understood since that day, love is being in good and bad moments, I found my perfect match for it.

Keep with the one who stays in your worst moments.

No much to say in fact. This is real love. During my relationship, we have faced hard moments, and my girl too, but both have tried to be for each other all the time. Many people have been in my best, but in my worst, every single time I count on her.

I´m blessed to know she has lived so many experiences with me, and we have learned about life together. She never care about if I had much or a little, but she assured me to grow up with me, and now we have built great things together.

Final thoughts

She is living with me now, and despite this is not easy, I know I am with the right person. We discuss we disagree, we do not share the same preferences, but we know the most important. We love each other because it feels so real.

If you reach this point, thanks so much for reading!

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