Sad

The feeling of being alone and no one understanding you or not making yourself understandable to people around us digs a huge hole in us. Doing things your way and your style without heeding to others advice even though they mean good and great for us. We at times feel insecured amongst friends and people and have this mindset to be independent and not relying on anyone or giving people feedbacks or getting in touch, some count this as being egoistic or being pride at play but it all boils down to behaviours and the mentality.

Most people hates being dependent and reliant on others as it might seem as a kind of weakness or laziness or it might be used as an act of inference in the future, nailing or judging one's actions later on. Sadness doesn't mean absence or lack of joy, it is a portrayal of one's body, mind and soul. An individual who has nothing of interest in a particular topic or matter at hand may appear sad to others and uncaring.

Problems and challenges facing an individual can also influence his or her sad trait and make them gloomy and deep in thoughts, deep thinking also shows sadness. A sad person should be tried to be understood rather than being judged, one should look and reason from their aspect and try to figure out why they are sad and try to offer possible solutions or try to work it out together. Most problem-solving solutions are rarely in the hands of those facing the problems whereas some would need the initiating factor of the person faced with the problem.

Asking out for help and being declined may be one of the thoughts of a sad person who is in crisis and needs help and to not be a burden to others as they have their own cross to carry also can cross through the mind of a sad person and just choose not to ask. It seems I am blurring the line between being SAD and being in CRISIS or PROBLEMS, it all boils down to the circumstances that anybody in crisis would in turn tend to be sad.

Some sadness however ain't from crisis or problems, some just arises from the way things are playing put for an individual whether his business isn't booming or he needs to do things that are out of his grasp. Wanting to hide the feelings of depression from friends and families is really not advisable as it kills and drains us faster. No matter the thought crossing our minds, we should always at least try to explain ourselves and table our matters before our friends.

Good Morning to you all and have a nice day ahead.