Why Do Most Relationships Failed?

There is no such perfect relationship. Every relationship passed into loops and holes. Some are still struggling and able to surpass it while some no longer continued the relationship which resulted into a broken family or relationship. But of course, they have different reasons why that relationship failed.

As I read some articles and have watched from movies, the below are some of the reasons of a failed relationships:

Third Party. The most common reason. Entering into an illegal relationship. This can happen to both husband and wives. Even to boyfriends and girlfriends. This is where one or both party met and became close to other people. Mostly to their officemates or colleagues because this is where their time is more spent. They became close that they eat together during breaktimes or lunch and they can talk more because they see each other longer. They did not noticed that both of them already fell for each other. Even at home, they cannot control missing each other, so they still text and call each other. This is where the affair all started for them and the end of the other relationship.

I worked in a BPO and I myself noticed how others entered into another relationship.

One of the scenarios are the smoking buddies. Again, these can happen to both men and women. Those people smoking have a certain smoking area. This is where some groups or.individual goes and started meeting others. They usually became close because they both smoke and talk at the same time. Until they ask for both contact numbers and this is the start. They spent most time together at work and even started to communicate at home. They can also go on a date together by making alibis to their husband/wives or girlfriends/boyfriends that they will render rest day overtime which is not actually true.

Disclaimer: This is just the scenario I saw for some. I am not claiming all.

Time. This is the most important reaaon why many relationship failed. Especially if both or one of the parties are working for the reason to support and provide to their children and families. Their minds concentrate on the financial side. They both work hard together, render overtime and even take sideline jobs that they both forget their time for each other and to their children. They maybe financially happy but emotionally sad. They no longer have time for themselves to talk about their work or about their families. They no longer eat together. Because both are busy, they no longer find time to go on a date or take their family out. They will only see at bed but will just sleep due to a tiring day. The next day, they will do the same routine again. To work, work and work. They spent more time at work. Until they noticed, that the love is gone.

Money. They say money is the root of all evil. When you have money, you can control everything. But it depends on how you handle it.

In a family, when there are financial issues like monthly bills and the food everyday, couples fight. Especially when this pandemic happened, the rate of umemployment increased. If the father lost their job, there is a big impact in the family. It will also impact the pride of the father since he is the head of the family. If he cannot support them, he will get mad everyday. He will just divert his attention to others like going outside with friends which causes the couple to fight. The father will then decide to leave the house. He felt worthless so he will just leave his family.

Third Sex. This only happens to very few couples. Mostly the husband or even the wife for some reason fall in love to their same sex. He/she falls out of love to his wife/husband. They will just decide to broke up and gave freedom to the other party.

Miscommunication. This usually happens if you are in a long distance relationship. There is no physical communication and you only communicate through social media. So any small fights or misunderstanding can lead to separation. We don't understand how both felt because we don't see each other face to face.

Remember that we should not decide when we are angry. Any decision you made when you are mad or very angry are mostly wrong. You are just carried away by your emotions. Let your self rest for a while and be cool. When you think you are okay compared before, that is the time to talk again for any misunderstanding and from there, you can decide if its worthy to continue or not the relationship. It's not just the both of you who will be affected but also the child or the children as well if you have your own family.

Effort. Not because you are married, doesn't mean you don't have to make efforts to your partner. For us ladies, we stll reminisce those times we received gifts, chocolates and flowers. For men, they also wanted gifts like they received before. It's not the price that matters. It's the thought that still counts.

For a housewife, it is hard taking care of the children and doing the household chores at the same time. That is why some mothers looks stressful. The father knew other ladies and compared the differences of his wife and the other ladies. He thought that he doesn't love his wife anymore because of her looks. That her wife can no longer be presented to others because she is not taking care of her looks anymore. The father doesn't know that the reason behind these is a hard-working wife.

Effort should come from the father. He should make effort by giving beauty products to his wife. A simple rose and a bar of chocolate would also make her wife smile. He should also not forget to give a kiss or hug to his wife everytime he leaves or return home from work.

Same goes to the wives. She should also understand that her husband is working hard so she should prepare delicious meals for her husband and a good massage before going to bed will ease the stress.

Physical Abuse. This is about beating your partner. Those things you did physically may heal but the pain will always be remembered. Mostly, wives are physically hurt by their husbands especially when they are drunk. They don't know what they did to their partner. Some also hurt their children who just defended their mother. So the wife will just leave with her children and move. Sometimes, they tried to stay for her family but if the physical damage is too much, it is the time that the wife leaves.

There are also husbands who were physically hurt by their wives. Whatever the reason is, it is not right to hurt someone physically. It's better to talk about any misunderstanding first before doing any decisions.

My Final Say

We should remember that behind a failed relationship for couples are the affected children. Their emotional and psychogical needs are affected. Every children needs complete family with complete love. If we can still make a relationship work, let us do it. Try to work it out. But if you think, that the love is gone, that is the time to decide.

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