We Prefer Hiding The Dark Side Of Life
A smoker or a guy addicted to drug never wants that his child also get addicted to something not good for us. All bad habits and bad incidents are also can be considered as the dark side we have experienced or had unexpectedly. No one wants to be addicted and no one wants to experience bad in life. But in a life we need to experience both light and dark. This is call life.
Here dark side doesn’t only mean to be addicted or only bad experiences. A dark side could be an accident that change our life forever. We want to hide that bad accident too. For example, a person cheating on her wife and involved in a illegal relationship but when he realize that he is doing wrong and it has bad impact to his family he need to hide this from all the people in this world. This became the dark side that he wants to hide from the people of this world.
A girl who was molested or raped in her childhood never wants to share this bitter or dark side of her life. Thankfully I've never experience such unexpected thing but I often think about those girls and they are the real fighter and this kind of dark side no one wants to expose or share. But this should be a dark side for the accused who raped and molest girls or women, that accused should be ashamed for their dirty activities.
There are so many examples that can be compare with dark side in life. A woman when get abortion for having unwanted baby in her womb also a kind of dark side. She suffer from guilty for the lifetime and she wants to hide it. I feel really bad for those women who takes such cruel decision, how they can abort a life? If she had risk of her life, in that case she can abort her child. I'm sure this kind of women never can forgive themselves. But unfortunately situations of life force them to do such unexpected thing or sins.
Our sins hardly allow us to sleep with peace and our sins are the dark side that we only expose told our Almighty and there nothing can be hidden. So we can ask for mercy for our sinful activities. Sometime having bad children or having bad parents also can be consider as dark side in life because no one wants to expose their source as the bad. Such as your father takes bribe and you'll never want to expose it to your friends because its a kind of dark side that you can change or control.
Likely, there is no parents who want to expose that they are having bad children. They always as parents try to hide faults of their children. So this is also a dark side of human life. We all have big or small dark side that we only expose to either someone really very trustworthy or keep them secret for the lifetime.
And I think its good to hide because only Almighty can solve things where we can expose everything and these days its hard to trust anyone. Many wise says that we shouldn’t trust our own tongue because it can speak up things we don't want to reveal.
Keep your dark side hidden! Stay safe!
We all have dark sides but we should be confident enough to realize that there would definitely be light at the end of the tunnel insha Allah.