We Can't Force Anyone To Be In Our Life

Life shows us so many things and we just go with the flow. We are audiences and cast of the drama we are playing everyday in our life. We all know that death is certain and we have no control to it, likely when someone wish to leave us and we are so helpless inside and try to hold forcefully but fail.

We are so helpless to our heart because its cry for someone who doesn’t even deserve our a single drop of tear. We dreaming for beautiful and peaceful life with a particular person but that person not always the right one who wants to, and try to be with us till the end.

Sometimes I think about it. Is this a big expectation that we want just one person to be with us for lifetime with loyalty and love? Maybe all are not lucky enough to have a person of our own, if someone get he/she the luckiest and blessed in life. I really feel good for those people who stay together till the rest of their life because these days its a rare thing we can find around.

Just one sided trying for holding a relationship can never be successful and if one wants to rule other as he/she wants will always be fail in relationship because in a relationship a mutual decision and mutual respect is important. One just ordering to do something not even good for any relationship couldn’t be a mutual decision and respect.

This is easy to hold back good memories with one loyal person, no need to be perfect one but at least having the feeling of being with one forever in any kind of circumstances. Holding hand is easy but holding hand for lifetime is not that easy especially when you are not ready to let go things, forgive, forget, compromise and sacrifice.

Having a big heart to forgive and forget is really very important to hold a successful and long lasting relationship but its not easy always for everyone. If someone doesn’t want to be with you, you can't force the person to be with you and he/she will fins thousands excuses to be apart from you.

A person who really wants to be in your life will always find at least one reason to be with you forever. So here we have no need to force because luckily we get the loyal person who promised himself/herself to be with you till the end and will always believe that no one can apart you.

Many people makes excuses that they are afraid and they are concern if others harm them for their togetherness but these are just some excuses to avoid you. If there is a will, there is a way. Loyal love find It's own way and loyal people never makes excuses to escape. That all I believe!