Never Stop Being Good Even You Were Treated Bad
Life is very short and here we need to be good maximum time that we can left good impression. Sometimes we get angry, speak up rough words to others, underestimate others and broke others by our bad behaviour. Accept their psychology and forgive them. Be humble and good to them even they treated you bad. It maybe not possible instantly, so take time to refresh mood and start being good to everyone.
If you are good, you’ve no need to explain to others because people who believes you will never need explanation and never need a reason to leave you. And people who doesn’t believe you, your explanations will be useless to them and they will make excuse to live you and will prove you as the bad. Most of the time we see the thing we want to see not the reality. At the end of your day, your people will understand your value and they will also understand their mistake.
A person who trusts you, you surely never going to break the trust. And when the person stop trusting you, you surely stop having concern to hold the trust. But never stop being good even people around you start being rude to you. You know what you are and your Almighty knows you, why need to explain to others that you are good? No need to explain. Be calm, keep quite. Time will says what is good and what is bad for you.
As a human being its not possible to be good to others all the time. Sometimes we may have mood swing, mood off and only our own people will be able to deal with them and allow you time to overcome such mood off or mood swing. People who doesn’t believe you, doesn’t understand you, they doesn’t deserve you as the best. But at least be good to them not because you’ve hope to change their negative perspective to you but because you don't want to stop being good even other's treated you bad and scold for their misunderstanding.
Sometimes we invite disasters or problems in our life for being a open book, sharing everything , considering friend everyone who doesn’t even care or over concerned and start judging that you are bad, you are open. Being open book is not always good and I learned the lesson from my life. Your open mind can bring troubles in your life and you were not ready for it. Judgemental behaviour of others will hurt you because you are not that bad as they are judging from their own perspective.
So stop explaining or advertising that you are good and be good always to others even they are not good to you. It could be hard but not impossible. Your being good and honest will be appreciated by Almighty and that is the biggest reward ever. Why expecting other's compliments that you are good? You know that already and that's enough!
When you are kind to others, others will be kind to you. Everyone does better when everyone does better. Letting bad people take kindness from you means that you have never been a good person to yourself. If you were, bad people could not take your goodness away from you. Be a good person for your own reasons, not because of anyone else.