90 Days Rule

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4 years ago

Do you think sex on the first date is bad?

When do you think is the right time to have sex with your partner?

There's a common rule women follow, it's called the 90 days rule and it says you must wait for 3 months before having any sexual contact with your partner.

Some people think it's best to wait for a few weeks or months or even years cause if you do it too early the relationship would not last long.

There are also couples that did it on the first date and they are old and still together.

What do you think?

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4 years ago

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Nice post

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4 years ago

My opinion, sex shouldn't be mentioned till after sacred wedding only if both agreed to be together, because there is nothing backing it up that, sex helps to show affection or helps to know if they both love each. Its not really good and it's called immorality.

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4 years ago

If that's what you prefer that's okay, we all have different cultures and beliefs and should respect each others decisions.

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4 years ago

Tell this article to a liberated lady, she will just laugh. I mean, today's mindset is really disgusting. They have a girlfriend/boyfriend engage in intimate relationship is like a walk in a park.

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4 years ago

It's not disgusting it's called a choice, we are all entitled to our choices, don't tell anyone what to do with their bodies or relationships, If you don't like it that's not their problem that's your problem and it's totally not your business or your right to call them disgusting for their choices. if they want to have sex on the first date or after one year it's their decision to make and it doesn't determine whether their relationship will last or not.

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4 years ago

Personally,i only wait for a week. I'm quiet liberated, i admit. But sex is part of a relationship, it is where you can express how much you love your bf or partner. It works for us because we are still together.

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4 years ago

I don't have any time frame, I just do whatever I feel like and it's been working for me too. It doesn't matter, we should be free to express ourselves however we like, no one should tell you what to do with your body, it's your choice.

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4 years ago

Thatbgoes for me as well though it is not very common to our culture. Most of us are not open minded when it comes to sex.

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4 years ago

It depends on the couple......Both of them.....

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4 years ago

You're right it's totally up to the couple to decide

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4 years ago

it's best after wedding for me but it's up to the couple if they will do it or not.

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4 years ago

Nice 🌷

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4 years ago

Sex depend on relationship.some relation long time but they are not meet..so they sex on first date

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4 years ago

True, long distance relationships are like that.

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4 years ago

Sex on a first date? That would be awkward!

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4 years ago

Really? why?

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4 years ago

It depend on the couple and the relationship

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4 years ago

I think it's love, commitment, communication and if the Two persons involve really wants to be together that will determine if the relationship will lasts or not.. I have seen couples that had sex on their first date and are happily married now and I have also seen some that waited for a while just to make sure everything is right and perfect still ended up miserable and eventually broke up so I believe the persons involves determine how it goes.

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4 years ago

Facts!

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4 years ago

Nice article

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4 years ago

I think if you love each other on any date as long as you two understand each other. That depends on you two partners. There is also the fact that it is in their culture to wait a few months. let's respect that. we can do nothing there.

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4 years ago

We all have different cultures and religions and we should respect that.

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4 years ago

Good

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4 years ago

For long lasting relationship sex is not the berometer. It is like food, it is not the main dish it is just a dessert for added sweetness, it won't make you full. The main dish is the love and mutual understanding, accepting each flaws. Always having dessert man will be used of it and lost its excitement and eventually the relstionship.

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4 years ago

Exactly! It's just the icing on the cake. 😀

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4 years ago

I dont know that rules 😅 but for me it depends for the couples

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4 years ago

lol google it, it's there. You're right it depends on the couple.

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4 years ago

cant understand

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4 years ago

Which part?

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4 years ago

Uhm I don't think the 90days rule is wise cause that's not what will keep the man, who wants to stay will stay despite that

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4 years ago

Some men will wait for 90 days and still leave once they get it.

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4 years ago

Swears

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4 years ago

As i m a muslim so we follow the rule of our religious.instead of first date we do all this at after wedding first night.

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4 years ago

A lot of traditions and religions do that too.

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4 years ago

In my opinion, we cannot just abide for a rule thats uncertain. All we have to do is, if we truly love that person we stay committed and wait for the right moment to come. The right moment for that is to do that after a sacred wedding. I believed that Love must be the center of relationship and not lust. I hope I enlightened your minds from my perspective.

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4 years ago

Thanks for your contribution, we should all do what's best for us and what makes us happy, if you want to wait or not, It's up to you to decide how you want your life to be.

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4 years ago

Describe in details please

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4 years ago

Describe what in particular?

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4 years ago

in this 90 days what they think & do

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4 years ago

They will be talking to each other, hangout, go on dates but no sleep over or sex or any kind of sexual stuff like kissing. nothing of that sort for 90 days, after the 90 days then they can do everything.

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4 years ago

ohh, that's good

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4 years ago

why is it good?

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4 years ago

Maybe some women follow the same rule you have mentioned. But in my perspective, there is nothing wrong about having sex during your first date, or after months of talking, and even if it took years for you to finally have sex with your partner. It is a decision to make by the person. If she said yes, then be it. And if she said no, respect it.

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4 years ago

I think so too, we should do what makes us happy, also communicate and respect each others decisions. sex doesn't determine how the relationship would go, you can wait for one year or one day, if he wants to cheat or leave, he would.

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4 years ago

Sex won't make a man stay. I am sure with that, because sex is already everywhere. You can get and have it to anyone. But, the attachment, affection, and unconditional love you get from a woman is a blessing. Having sex with her would just be a bonus.

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4 years ago

Facts! Thanks for your contribution 💕

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4 years ago

I think those rules aren't necessary at all, it's about commitments s*x is not the core basis of relationship.

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4 years ago

You're right, I think it's up to the both people, everyone and every relationship is different.

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4 years ago

Exactly, that is some rules are not applicable or necessary.

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4 years ago

Absolutely unnecessary!

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4 years ago

I think, that there is no rule. It is how you feel like (both of them, no forcing), and this is enough.

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4 years ago

I agree, they should communicate and understand each other and also respect each others decisions.

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