DEAR LADY.

You can't wait to be married, even me can't wait for you to be married, it's every ladies dream, even Men too.

Marriage will come for you eventually, God will do it, but when it comes, it will come not just with the Privileges but with RESPONSIBILITIES.

Hope you are preparing not just for the FUN, but for the WORK.

Men are funny creatures, you'll need patience to deal with them.

Do you have patience?

Or your own is to shout and tear down the roof "as e dey hot?"

The average Man loves Food, good food., except you plan to get a house help for that, you will cook, a lot, like almost everyday in the week, Can you cook?

When you were a spinster, you could eat Indomie and anything you wanted on some days, you had the power of choice and freedom to do as you like, but that changes when you get married, I hope you love cooking?

Keeping a home is hard work,

Especially when there's kids.

Only few Men will actually create time to assist their wives with chores and kids, I pray you marry such a Man, but even if you do, you'll still feel the heat.

Are you ready?

How good are you at submitting?

A single lady is in charge of herself, her body, what she wears, where she goes, but a Married Woman isn't.

You'll have to pass all your decisions through your husband, except you are looking for matter that people will come and settle in your marriage?

Are you ready?

When you want to do something and he says No,...

Are you ready?

When you want to go somewhere and he says No, sit at home.

These are practical issues that are tearing marriages down, A married Woman will tell her husband either by words or by her actions "I own myself, you can't tell me what to do", such marriage will not be a peaceful one, impossible.

Are you ready?

When you come home tired, and he wants to play dat play, do you know what to say/do to manage the situation?

I've seen Women who abandon their breastfeeding babies at daycare centers daily so they can be free from the stress, seen women who leave their little babies with neighbors and went out with friends to party.

Many Women have scattered their marriages because they came prepared for the FUN, but not prepared for the WORK.

They came to PARTY, but met REALITY

They came to PLAY, and forgot to come PRAYING.

"I'm a Married Woman" is not by flashing your wedding ring... Come Prepared for EVERYTHING, and may Almighty Allah also give you a Man who will help you with EVERYTHING.