SAD Confessions #1603
Title: Phase
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I had gotten out of an incredibly toxic, abusive, long relationship. I kept time to myself for a few weeks. But then I went through a hoe phase. A really bad hoe phase where I slept with 6 different people in a 4 month period mainly cause I was really sad about the breakup and thought that was what I needed to get my mind off of my ex (I was very VERY wrong). I ended up spending an additional 3 months just completely alone and trying to figure out my life when I met this amazing guy who I met by complete chance.
We hit things off fairly well, we got along, had similar taste in music, similar hobbies. He has a GREAT personality. We kept talking and talking, eventually he asked about my dating history and others. I just gave him numbers and time periods. He kinda judged me for my hoe phase (I mean... who wouldn't) I've been cheated on many many times before and I was always a loyal person when I was cuffed. But he said that since I have a high body count, especially because of that 4 month time period, he's unsure of being with me...
I still want to talk to him and potentially have something bigger, but he's unsure.. Boys, do you guys judge girls for their body count? Does it matter to some of you guys??? I really don't know what to do and I really really like this boy... please help :(
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- a hoe :(
There are a lot of guys who really does that. It somehow hurts their ego. And is sometimes really hurtful to think of. He might be making out with you then suddenly he think about your past- that's what he's afraid of (I think). Give him time to digest everything first. Make efforts for him to trust you that you can be loyal to only one man. Though you were loyal to your previous relationships, you cannot blame him to question your loyalty since you were with different guys recently. Just give him time. Be friends first and see how it will end up. Or give him space. If his love is stronger than his doubts, he will come back to you.