Toxic relationship- sweet poison draining your energy slowly but continuously
Almost everyone at some point in their life falls in love with an opposite. More often we are impressed with the smile or physical appearance of someone but sometimes simple eye contact is enough to exploit life.
This happens in teenagers mostly, inspired by romantic movies or web series heroes, where a hero a drug addict and his life for only one girl, he wanted to be his life.
These things look glorious in movies only where both director and writer get benefits. But in reality no practical implementation of such things.
People who already suffered that toxic relationship named it an obsession that soon ends up at some point in life. It can take a few days, weeks, months, or sometimes years because people love to be in that sweet but poisonous feelings.
Now, what actually happens, in teenagers as we newly get admission to the university, where the whole environment is different! Everyone has a buddy or partner in form of the opposite gender whatever they name that connection.
And the student who gets admission also wants to be in such sort of relations with which they can spend a lot of time and share his feelings. This seems good for a shorter period, maximum till the completion of your degree.
But toxic relationships slowly drain your energy as sweet poison
The buddy who is actually sincere with you never lets you down but participating is a useless activity. She knows it's only a waste of time, it's better to focus on productive tasks.
But in a toxic relationship, your partner doesn't care about you. Her only focus is only her entertainment, still, after doing all the things for her, her reply would be what you have done for me.
Doesn't matter that you wasted your golden era at the start of your 20s in making her happy, bunking classes lost grades, and self-esteem. Finally lost her too.
It felt pleasant to spend time in the cafeteria laughing, eating, and chatting but what about your career that is at risk? You are wasting your peak time in which you have a lot of energy to learn new skills but your priorities are a single person's happiness.
Okay, time passed what next, you both passed out of the institute without any learning or low grades. Both of you have the same future but a different journey. Remember no one like to be in contact with an unsuccessful person.
People are with you because you have some talent either hidden or already revealed. There is the logic behind everything in this world. So, both of you are in different cities and you miss her badly.
You tried all possible ways to approach her but they were all useless. All days and nights you waste your time while thinking about her, why she does not reply? Am I doing anything wrong? Is he okay or not many useless questions circulating in your brain.
But in all this, you are only destroying your own life by thinking about her. Okay, according to you, you moved on and don't care about her anymore. But still, you are wasting your time by thinking about her for 24 hours.
Let me tell you about an interesting, person about which you think all day doesn't care about you at all. Only you making her Princess of your heart.
Conclusion
A career should be the priority, when you become successful, everyone would like to connect with you. It's just a matter of time, be focused on your career and achieve top-notch in your life. Then you will get all you dreamed to be in your life.
For now, say goodbye to toxic relationships and move on for the betterment of your own life.