Life is too short to please Everyone

If you believe that everyone like you, cares for you, and feels well watching you grow. Then probably you are wrong because no one cares about your either you like or die except your parents. The world sees for their interest how they get benefits through you.

So what's the point to please everyone, let them think about what's going on in there? mind. You have your own life and are unique in your way and should remain unaffected by external influence as they don't worth it to care for.

Remember that your happiness is more crucial than the whole world because the toughest task in this world is to please yourself. In this hectic world, we forget your value and make people have it just because they will feel bad. Seriously! what about your happiness and morale?

It's okay to let me down sometimes for core relations but all the time you are trying way better and the response is not as it should be. You are losing your integrity every time, this is not good actually. Life is not about making others happy, be happy and enjoy your life in your way because life is too short to make every person happy.

No matter how good you are and trying your best to make someone happy. The one who is in search of someone better will unhappy with you because it's all your effort and that one doesn't care whether you care or not, just wants to get rid of you. Let them go. And the person who cares for you in actuality would be happy with your small efforts.

Instead of pleasing everyone just because you can't cut off or are soft-hearted, understand as soon as you can your happiness should be the priority (physical and mental) in this situation don't listen to your heart

'No he or she will feel bad'

Let them feel so because if you feel bad while entertaining those people, don't hurt them. Making yourself the priority is not selfishness it's a need for time and to be used to this.

Closing thoughts

During my life period of 21 years, I have seen people lose themselves for someone else happiness. But later on, the same person asks what you have done for me. The nature of humans is similar to that we forgot good memories and chapters easily and bad phases of our life are stored in our subconscious minds.

It's better to spend this short period of life pleasing own self rather than putting effort into making happy who even don't care.

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