I saw people with soft-heart always being used by the surrounding, people ask them to do something for them, any sort of work, they can't refuse, probably they think it's against their morality. But I believe It is better to say no rather suffering for someone who doesn't care about yourself.

It's not an easy task, especially for introverts to refuse someone, they do this task and later on people forget.

I was watching a south movie a week ago of Allu Arjun an Indian actor, who was a assistant in a company under his boss. They are informal. meeting regarding their business. His boss was a female who hesitate to say no to that business deal because the opposite client bring her gang with himself, that's way she afraid to talk even.

He was trying to respond to her client, but the client continuously forced him to stop talking by saying she can't able to speak, further the client warned her to accept the offer otherwise consequences will be worst.

Then the main character, that was Allu Arjun taught him a lesson, If someone doesn't understand your offer and silent it means no, especially if a female is silent, totally no! it only means she doesn't agree with your offer.

Nothing is more crucial than your sentiment, you are precious so don't suffer yourself in baseless stress and accept unwanted talks with no logic. We are here in this world with logic to find out the purpose of our life, to do good things for ourselves, our family, society and humanity.

Be logical, avoid stress enjoy the world, and don't be suffered after being emotionally influenced by someone. No one care about it. Putting yourself first should be the priority. If yo lost your importance how can you expect someone else to respect your sentiments.

Suppose, if you did a task for someone, and the person knows that you are busy and have no time for this still he asked to do it, you should understand on that spot, that person doesn't care about you, be straight forward and told him no, I can't do it because I have my crucial works are pending. It is difficult to say these words but it's better for both.

Even if you completed that task then that person's review about you, is useless and doesn't care about own-self. In the future, he will ask you to complete more tasks for him what will you do? at some point, you have to say no to that person. Be careful while choosing people, Because nothing is more important than your happiness.

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Thanks for your attention!

My mid-term exams are started, today is the first paper of Organic chemistry 1, I get up early 2-am in the morning read some slides lightly go through, the exam will start at 1 pm in the universe and now the 4 am.

Pray for me guys. I will be back after a brief break. hehehe!