Care to don't care

Time changes and we grew the thing we thought to be the most crucial or necessary for us is no more needs to be in life. A kid wants toys and he is unaware of all sorts of external influences of the society lives his life happily without any worry. The most important thing is that everyone surrounding him cares about the kid. Family, relatives parents all love him. He is living a happy life.

As he grew up as a teenager, society's attitude towards him started changing and that favorite kid have no value in society. Everyone tries to torture him in their way. I remember I was in class 7th and went to my nano home. Nano's home was 100km away from our home, so I travel with my mom to see my Nano. We reached there and stayed about two days.

Mamo asked my mother if he was idle? You bring him everywhere the place you go. And you know what from that day my behavior towards this society starts changing. And now I don't care about the people. Try to avoid relatives as I can.

I experienced the things I was thinking are most important for me right now after 30 days, most of the time need for that specific thing is disappears. It's human nature we want a thing eagerly but with time need for it disappears or if we achieve it we lost its importance.

About four months ago I watched a Pakistani season Parizad in which the mean character Parizad asked a question to a person selling the piano, who is better either the person who got his love or the one who doesn't!

The piano seller replied: "of course none of them. "jese nhi mila usny yaad ma guzar diya aur jese mil gya usny mutti kr dia" Means the one who got it lost the value while spent their remaining life in memories.

So, it's better to stay away from the temporary love of this modern which has no practical results. These things are beautiful only in movies in practical life is only self-destruction. According to experts on teenage everyone failed to get their first because it's not the age to make a long-term promise. Need to be more practical and think about your future building your career.

Calories are burnt in both ways either you try to impress your love or try to build your career. If you run toward love, it's no guarantee that you will get him. But if you achieve your career and are in a better position from a financial point of view most probably you will get your love or someone better.

The matter is to stay focused on your career rather than caring about what people are thinking about you. Honestly speaking people don't care about you either you live or die stop thinking about them. Society only wants results. If you become successful they will appreciate you trying to meet you but if you can't achieve a better position this society will see you as a failure.

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Stop caring about people & start working

@Shani59

31-05-2022