Be polite to yourself - Ignore negative compliments

Human has a habit to talk negatively about themselves, irrespective of how good they are. Standing in front of mirrors and talking negatively about yourself only put a negative impact on yourself. In a survey taken in the United States, teachers in a school gave the same grade to 30 students but on the papers of 15 students, they wrote that "you can do it"the In next term exams these 15 students have 80% improvement in their results compared to other 15 learners.

When someone in our friends is in trouble we try to motivate him positively don't worry man it's a part of life what in your case. Why you can't boost up yourself? Most of the time on bad days you felt alone as this society will smile at you but can't weep. The things are simple just told yourself Yep I can do it and surely I will.

Don't degrade yourself that I am not made for this task or I can't complete it and get offended. This shouldn't be the way. You will never grow if you remain stuck that mental blocks. The maximum what happens? you failed! shouldn't you have confidence that you tried at least? Not like other people who only point out others.

The biggest myth of this society. What people will say? The worst phrase I listen from people! I ask the question myself can we stop people to talk negatively about ourselves? I realized it's their only and most effective permanent job in which they are experts.

The people who can't do anything will point out others. And their remarks are he has not earned this level honestly but through scam blah blah! After their success, they start to praise those people who don't listen to their negative compliments and stay consistent with their destination will their full efforts.

The way you motivate someone to complete a task is the same words you need to yourself in a bad phase of life when you are feeling discouraged or have low confidence. No one there to push you all the time. Make a habit of motivating yourself all the time.

Don't feed negativity to your brain, why the point of being disheartened? Ups and downs are part of life learn from them and be strong than before. Don't blame Your luck that I am not so lucky. If this could happen I can do this. I always make a mistake. Instead of it feeding your brain that yes this happened but now you have to become a better version of yourself. You are so lucky that you even don't know.

Our focus is on troubles rather than what we have. The art of being happy is to focus on what we have rather trouble that we are facing. Do you know the fact? Everyone has troubles in their life. But they know how to react to all situations. Those people have a firm belief in God that this shall too pass.

Every night when I try to sleep I used to think that 'Good days will come in life' But after next morning after getting up realized that the day already spent was a blessing. So I start living every moment instead of blaming my luck, circumstances, family, or friend circle. As it is only I who can change my life others may play the role of catalyst but the main character of my life is I who has taken a decision.

Ignore the people who are laughing at you. If someone is gentle or great. He will respect your effort and try to correct your mistake. Because I know that you tried and will succeed a day. But the people who laugh at you will remain to laugh. Your focus is on positive chapters of life. Forget the painful stories which result in hurt only.

I can't understand when we score good grades we remain silent as if nothing happened. Expecting others to applaud. On success behaving like a normal but on negative grades why have we begun to intimidate ourselves? Should have the same behavior in both situations.

Conclusion

Your goals are far away, you do have not enough energy to respond to everybody's negative compliments. Make a habit of ignoring them. Patience is the key don't respond to them with your words. Stay consistent and work with firm faith in yourself with discipline. in life.

The people who are pointing to you will praise you. Yes, he is the man who achieved a rank. But the point is to motivate your rather discouraging told your subconscious mind yes I can and surely I will do it.

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