Be a problem shooter
The people who can resolve problems are real gems and are rare, society gives value to these people who are problem solvers. No one like problems creators, everyone is busy in their world no one has time to resolve other issues as they are already suffering in their own life. In this scenario, the one who can sort out the problem have more value in this society.
All the things that you think you have not in your personality are considered a skill and start working on them. A day you became master in these skills. Let me explain about problems solving skills:
Stick to the problem
Remember when we try to avoid or get rid of a problem at that time we are in comfort and safe from that problem but later the problem will find us and make us resolve that one.
I was in 9th class and I hate math, so I skipped chapter #9 because of the complicated calculus questions while thinking that I will choose FSC pre-medical in intermediate. Later in the 3rd semester of my Bachelor's degree again I have been studied derivation and integration and I know how tough was that subject and how I passed them out! I better resolve the issue on the spot rather than issue will find out you later.
Don't Generalized
Stop over-thinking why me! I can't solve this problem, this issue is huge, etc. Only anxiety level will increase nothing better will happen by procrastination. Instead of the seek out the ways to solve the issue.
Seek out the ways and be confident that you are capable of solving the issue. What worse will happen? You failed! still, the inner peace that you have tried to resolve the issue.
Find out the Core problem
Instead of thinking about the whole problem, find out the core issue and resolve that one. Like if electricity is gone due to a short circuit in the house. Instead of shouting that the house is darkened, don't know what happened! find out the core problem. Fuse is burnt or an issue of a wire. Seek out the ways to resolve issues lightly, if you take them seriously or became stressed nothing will happen action is important rather than being tired psychological level
Exhaust all possible ways
Tried all the possible ways to solve the issue, firstly. Then seek out help. I was reading a book about a prisoner, who is an expert in breaking locks of all sorts and is confident about his abilities. He challenges the world the make any sort of lock and I will break it. One day a Roman Prince sent him an invitation to break a lock so he can test his skill.
He arrived there and tried all possible means to break the lock but he can't able to do so. 3-hours happen but he still can't able to break it. He began to lose confidence in his skill with a heavy heart he lay down and turned towards the door. The door opened because the door was never locked. So it's better to check out all you have tried all the possible ways to solve the problem.
Seek for help
In last ask others to collaborate in solving this issue after trying your best.
Thanks for reading!
29-05-2022
Solutions are embedded in the problems.