How long will you complain?

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For ages we have seen people complaining each other. Its time we stop and help each other. Even if the issue is small, the complain states to be big. Some people find mental satisfaction by just complaining others for no reason. An unreasonable act by an immatured person.

None of us are perfect. Though we are not perfect, we expect perfection in what is being done to us. Else we go to the state of complain. This may start right from home may be between siblings or between spouses or may be in office, between colleagues and so on....

From the very existence of man, he never misses a chance to complain. A compliment is infact a difficult task to come out from a person's mouth but when it comes to complaint its vice-versa. One just pours out the list of negatives in the form of conplaints against his opponent. A real shameful act. If we can't praise a person we have no right to complain against him as well.

The pain one goes through after too many allegations against him is a real torture. Sometimes things happen unknowingly. Ofcourse we are not Saints to be perfect in everything we do. But taking this as an opportunity and back biting is one of the unworthy profession.

A person with a good family background, patience, more capability and experience does not practice the technique of complaining. He instead, takes the initiative to correct the person from his side. Instead of wasting his time by finding faults of his opponent, he points the mistake as to where he has gone wrong and corrects him. That's a nobility of a person. Note: This part Iam talking only from my point of view as I have experienced this in my career long back.

If you look back a moment, we can see people with great calibre in various fields. But due to lack of support or a word of appreciation, they do not get a chance to expose their calibre. Might be for their small fault, they are being confounded. The result being - they suppress the hidden talents within them. Here, fear of losing something or someone also plays a major role.

Some people have the utmost courage to fight back, against the complainant. It happens only when they are true to the fact that the allegations raised against them are baseless and they are heading striaght to their destination. An applause to such decisions with boldness and determination.

In short, for a better society one can encourage a person for being himself rather than discourage by complaining.