From Single to Marital to loneliness

Greetings friends! So another hectic day going on. With the hot scorching sun above and the unfriendly weather, life moves on....with the hope,all of you all, had a wonderful day ahead.

Most of us go through the best moments of our life from childhood to adolescent. No responsibilities, no commitments, nothing much to worry about. We get what we need maybe by demanding or commanding. You get the food, clothing, shelter and other necessities that you need from your parents. Nothing much to bother about, just day dreaming. When some are born with silver spoon, there are peoples who struggle for a day's meal. A time where we spent more with friends rather than parents. Infact, an age where our mind gets easily diverted. Depends completely on the choice of friends. An age easily influenced by others. An age where you shape your character, so choosing good friends can lead you to the right path. Constant and continuous monitoring of the child is very important during this period. As they get easily carried away by what they see and what they hear. The future of the child depends completely on the family background and his circle of friends.

An age where extra care & concern is necessary by constantly monitoring and correcting them.

Next comes an age of adolescence. An age where they are carrying lots of doubts. Here, children go through different mood swings. They get angry too fast. Always impatient and unreasonable. They love to be in the company of friends. But, here they built up a strong relation with friends. Expectations are more. On the contrary not able to take up disappointments. A time period where they prove a friend in need is a friend indeed. They go to the extent of sacrificing for their friends, if need arises. Such thick is there friendship bond, that only secondary importance is given to their parents. An age where they easily fall prey to so many illegal activities. Not sure to analyze what is right and what is wrong. Above all, not ready to take advice from their parents. One of the toughest age phase if not handled with utmost care and concern, will be shattered to pieces.

The most beautiful phase of everyone's life is the marital life. One happens to become busy and responsible only if he/she gets married. Along with responsibilities comes commitment. Though initial stages are tough the togetherness strengthens the relationship. As two people with different culture and tradition get together, adjustments play an important role. In some extreme cases when two of them are not able to get along with the relationship they seperate. Eventually disturbing each other mentally and physically. In a marital relationship only when one is ready to give up, this will move forward. In this phase of life, when one is ready to respect the other person, no matter what he/she is, the relationship will have its glow as and when the days go by.

Finally comes the dreadful end of journey. Loneliness. Not easy to cope with this. In the journey of life all of us become lonely one time or other. A silent killer that can never be felt unless experienced. No matter how big you are or how rich you are all us get a chance to experience this. Here "rich" are those who have somebody to take care of. We get busy when we have people around us to talk to. When you are lonely and nobody to share our thoughts as there is no listener. This silence can make a person insane for sure.

To avoid loneliness one should engage in any hobby they are familiar with as told by @ Ling01 in one of her article.

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