For older drivers, driving safety may be a sensitive problem. A driver's license means more than the right to drive a car; it is a sign of self-sufficiency and independence.
If you are in the role of talking about their driving to an older friend or family member, note the following:
Be respectful. Also, driving is an important part of freedom. At the same time, if you have a real question, do not be threatened or sit down.
Offer concrete examples. Instead of generalizations such as "You can no longer drive safely," explain specific issues that you have noticed. For instance: "You have a harder time turning your head than you used to," or "You suddenly braked three times the last time we drove at stop signs."
Find power in numbers. It's less likely to be taken as nagging if more than one family member or close friend has heard. A loved one, such as a doctor or driving professional, can also listen to a more neutral group.
Help to find alternatives. The person may be so used to driving that alternatives have never been considered by them. You may provide concrete assistance, such as exploring transportation alternatives or, where possible, providing rides.
Understand the hardship of the transition. Having given up the keys, your loved one may feel a deep sense of loss, and not being able to drive may lead to loneliness and depression. Try to help as much as possible with the transition. Try to slowly phase the senior out of driving if it is safe to allow them time to adapt. For example, by no longer driving at night or on the freeways or by using a shuttle service to specific appointments, such as the doctor's, your loved one may begin the transition.
Confronting elders are very difficult. You should have a strong mind and patience